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Author:  CxHops [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 6:44 pm ]
Post subject:  How would you have done it?

Last night I was in the hot tub of my apartment complex just relaxing after a long day of work when these two hot babes cut through the pool area. As they passed me they asked me if the hot tub was hot. I was assuming they were asking because they were considering coming back. I told them yeah, and they came back about 10 minutes later. I welcomed them back and one of them jumped in, the other was still fully clothed and talking on a cell phone.
I've got no game and I was really looking to try and go all out on this, so I had my head against the wall and my eyes closed for a minute or two when the one that got in asked me "How long have you lived here?" I answered her question and went silent again. She waited a few seconds and asked me "Do you like it here?" I answered again, and we continued to make small chat, all the while her friend on the cell phone. Then all of a sudden the girl just shut down and stopped asking any questions. I just said fuck it and put my head back and closed my eyes again.
Few minutes later a third girl (a friend of theirs) came down to join them, and by this time cell-phone girl was off the phone. I didn't interact with them really, just laughing quietly at something stupid they'd be saying, and they'd turn around and give me a quaint smile.
Everytime the bubbles went off they'd ask me to get up and turn them back on since I was the closest. I wanted them on too so I didn't really mind. But when I got out and I was drying off the bubbles went off again, and once again they turned to me and asked me to turn them back on.
I said "Whoah I'm not your personal assistant over here, give me a break." They laughed and I left.

Again, I'm brand spankin new to the PUA world and I wasn't really trying to lay anything down here. I'm just looking for some feedback on how some of you might have handled this.
Note: Cell phone girl and her first friend were hot, the third girl to arrive was not.

Author:  high school pua [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 7:58 pm ]
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Dude it seems like you didn't even try to talk to them. They displayed a major IOI by opening you AND trying to start/continue a conversation. You should've just tried to talk to them and laid some game on them.

Author:  roxstar [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 8:27 pm ]
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Well, he did say he's new. So, you can't really say he knows game.

They liked you, and you could have done more. I would have controlled the conversation, sat beside them in the hot tub, and just started gaming them in general.

You should've told the girl to get off her cell phone and join the party. It's impolite of her.

Don't answer their questions directly. Be a smartass, or say a comment. I guess this would be Cocky & Funny. I prefer to be a smartass.

I would have gamed the 3rd girl just so I could control the group, and make the other two a little jealous that I'm not paying attention to them. But I would be talking to the entire group so that they don't start having their own little conversations and start whispering about me. (Talking to the group, and everybody in the group).

You were more like a servant than an awesome stranger. There are entire processes for what I would do.

It's okay to be new. In 6 months you won't be so new. And you'll know more about what you need to do.

Welcome to pick-up,
RS.

Author:  CxHops [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 8:40 pm ]
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Cool. Thanks for the feedback. I appreciate it. I guess it's all about being in the situations on just working on shit you missed and whatever.

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