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| Author: | Immolation [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 1:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Why I retire from structured methods. |
I've been a student of this for about a year and a half. During that time, I figured, hey, if I get a bullet-proof routine, then I can stick to that for the remainder of my life, picking up any woman. Until this evening, I was the lord of canned material. But then I visited Starbucks. I went to order a frozen coffee, and the cashier was kind of cute. I wasn't interested in sarging tonight, but figured it would be fun to play around with her a little... just for the fuckin' hell of it. She was standing at the drive-thru window, looked over, asked if I had been helped or not, and I gave her a "what the fuck did you just say?" look, and of course turned it into a joke after she repeated by a knowing shake of the head and smile. And then later when she went to hand me my change, I kept moving my hand around, making her reach over the counter and everything, and she gave me a big grin. I wasn't "trying" anything. for the first time EVER I was actually just having some fun with a girl without meticulously working out the next steps in my head. Then I realized... most of my success has come from when I improvised a little from the predetermined method. Sure, they've been a great help. But the more I mature, the more it feels like I'm being too constricted by them. Immolation herby retires from his "training wheels" of heavily structured methods, and henceforth will go into fully natural/situational pick-up. From now on I adopt a layed-back, playful, to-the-point style that's lose enough to improvise when I feel the need. |
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| Author: | Adster [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 4:44 am ] |
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Good for you! Now I've never thought that structured material was useless, far from it. When I started all of this, I was unsure to to act and approach, but after a while, the methods and routines helped me out, yet I never stuck with them. Eventually I said to Hell with routines and then I started having fun. Don't ever be afraid to try something new, just as long as you have that confidence. Your analogy was right. When we start riding a bike, we use training wheels first, then over time we get out balance and then we ride on our own. But whatever you do, don't disregard what you've learned or neglect it. |
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| Author: | stevo91 [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 7:23 am ] |
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With me I will only do a routine opener from there i unleash my personality |
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