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Author:  mbkb24 [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 3:57 am ]
Post subject:  I DON'T HAVEE GAME

I DON'T HAVE GAME. any help?

Author:  mii [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:14 am ]
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Dude don't feel that bad about it nor do I have read tons of this shit and it has occurred to me i still don't even really no how to talk to a girl I just feel quite frustrated and defeated.

Author:  Solomon II [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:26 am ]
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We're not just gonna tell you exactly what to do. If it was like that, this would all just be one page of stuff and no discussion would be required. It doesn't work like that, stop being lazy and actually put some effort in. Everything you need to know is dotted around the forums here. Everything. It's all broken up into sections, so if you use your brain then you can piece it all together.

Stop being so lazy and do some reading, then come back with some real questions.

Author:  mbkb24 [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:27 am ]
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i've read it all, i've tried it all. but i guess i'm just having no success at all.
i might as well start singing the blues.

Author:  Solomon II [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:33 am ]
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i've read it all, i've tried it all. but i guess i'm just having no success at all.
i might as well start singing the blues.
Well, give us some more information if you want help. You can't just say "I don't have game" and expect us to tell you what to do. Obviously your inner game needs fixed, so that'll be a start.

What kind of approaches have you done? Run us through the shit you've read, what you've applied, how you rated your comfort levels doing it, everything you can give us.

Author:  Ryantherhino [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:34 am ]
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If you have 0 game which i really doubt start out easy, open up atleast 3 girls a day, just say hi, thats all. Start opening every woman you see, hi, thats all. AA should be lessend by that point, begin starting conversations after you say hi. Get to the point where it feels natural to approach and talk to women- thats really the basic thing. You have to be comfdurable.

Then work on seducing

Author:  mbkb24 [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:41 am ]
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i'm sorry guys for not explaining anything but
i think i'm just tired of getting rejected by everyone.
i'm in high school. so it's hard to work this game shit out. i've been trying but
i never seem to get it on with a girl. and when i do start a convo, i must act like a asshole because i'm incapable of having a sexual or serious conversation with a girl. FUCK! I'M SO STREESSEEDDDDDDDDDDDDDD OUT!!!!!

Author:  Solomon II [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 4:54 am ]
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I asked for details, not complaining. Let's try that again:

- How are you approaching girls?
- What are you talking about? Cos seriously, if you aren't being sexual or serious then what the hell are you talking about?
- What is holding you back when it comes to escalating?
- Do you know how to escalate conversation?

Author:  mbkb24 [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 5:13 am ]
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well i don't really approach girls that i don't know
and i try to talk about topics that won't put me oon the spot
and i don't talk sexually because i know they won't take me seriously and it's just frustrating, and i've tried spitting game on some females but it never works out.

Author:  Solomon II [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 5:25 am ]
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I can tell that you haven't really been doing this for long, cos there's a lot of inner game stuff you don't seem to understand. If you understood even some of the stuff that I do right now, you wouldn't be having these kinds of problems. You'll be well on your way after a bit more questioning though, so let's get on with it. :mrgreen:
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well i don't really approach girls that i don't know
Why not? You're really limiting yourself by sticking to girls you know already, and you're more anxious about fucking up when it comes to girls in your existing social circle so it's no wonder you're holding back so much.
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and i try to talk about topics that won't put me on the spot
Give some examples of stuff you normally talk about. And riddle me this, what is it that you really wanna talk about? I have to know this stuff if I'm to help you get around to it because it's all a matter of escalating and directing the conversation where you want it to go.
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and i don't talk sexually because i know they won't take me seriously and it's just frustrating, and i've tried spitting game on some females but it never works out.
You don't want them to take you 100% seriously when you frame things sexually early on. The idea of this is to get them used to you being sexual so that later on when things are escalating it is a lot more natural and comfortable. And because they're expecting it, the fact that they let you away with it at this stage is an IOI in itself.

Author:  Jaybot [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 12:03 pm ]
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I think you need to take a leap into the unknown, talk to girls you have never talked to about things you know little about. Chances are they know very little about the subject too.

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