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| Author: | Constantine00 [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 1:33 am ] |
| Post subject: | Realizing I have an angonizing case of one-itis |
I drown myself in alchohol. Not just at night, but during the day now... Before school just to kill the pain cause some bitch has me all fucked up. I've mentioned her before, my friend's ex-gf who lives down the hall and I never meant to fall in love with her but she's a hard one not to man. Now she's got me twisted because we haven't talked in days and I could call her, invite her over but I don't want to feel like this. It fucks up my game. I can't kick it to other girls when I'm all messed up over her, thinking about her, and I can't even try to score with her because she makes me weak...I think I need some help on this one... |
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| Author: | Locke [ Fri Jan 23, 2009 3:58 am ] |
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One-itis thread. moving out of relationship section. |
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| Author: | Constantine00 [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 2:01 am ] |
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"Forum Moderator??" What a joke! Thanks for your help!!!! You think I'd be posting in "relationships" if there wasn't something there? Kick me out you fucking jerk, Forum Moderator. LMAO |
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| Author: | Immolation [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 2:15 am ] |
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There's nothing anyone could tell you that could help you solve this problem, other than "wait it out." Wait it out by experiencing the pain to its utmost. That way, when the pain begins to subside, you'll be more IMPERVIOUS to one-itus later on in life. don't swallow it, don't try self-help audio books, or inner game techniques, just wait it out. |
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| Author: | undefined [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 2:34 am ] |
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i know how feeling, your going to have to try to ignore her, i know, not as easy it sounds. Stop thinking about her, go out with friends, not just girl-friends, hang out with the guys, you need sometime to put the game aside, and just live your life until you feel more stable. Theses things happen, your going to have to deal with it the hard way, and alcohol isn't helping (am sure you already know that) find something to do, daily, a hobby (aside from PU) something that won't get you thinking about her. |
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| Author: | nobody [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 4:24 am ] |
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Hey, i feel your pain man... really sorry about this... but hey. You gotta stop drinkin man! It makes it worse and you know it! its as if you were trying to "solve" your problem with a drug, and you know such things doesnt work, you gotta face them. Or face yourself. Okay, here is what i recommend. Try to do things that are fun, and in which you have ton CONCENTRATE, i mean not to read or listen to music, because you think too much about her when you do these things. My first recommendation is that you should make sports! It is proven that sports liberate natural drugs in your body that makes you less depressed and happier. It helps you relax and think about other things and you have fun while doing it! man go play football, basket ball, hockey, running, or just muscle training! And after that... oh man go out! go watch a movie with friends, play video games or play an instrument (if you can) well good luck, and take your time. This one's gotta hurt. |
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| Author: | Reo [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 6:48 pm ] |
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You're all depressed and drowning yourself in booze over her. You might seriously want to consider some counseling or taking an AA class. At some point your going to have man up and tell her your interested.There's not any real tricks or methods in doing this The girl knows you too well already just get it over with. There's something you need to consider if she rejects you what will you do? |
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| Author: | Constantine00 [ Sat Jan 24, 2009 10:46 pm ] |
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Thanks fellas and yeah, this one is KILLING ME!! Guess I'm not as Impervious2 as I thought lol. It's just that she's so close and I can't get away. I think actually hitting on here would be disasterous at this point. I know there is no way she is over my friend, yet and what's messed up is he isn't over her, but he's in jail til the sun burns out and she put him there. All I can do is try to DHV...if I even want to go that way. My brother is one vicious PUA and he told me "don't shit where you sleep." She lives a couple of doors down. I know drinking myself into oblivion isn't the answer; in fact today I even called my dad and said I was starting to think I had a problem. I don't know if I need AA because it hasn't been very long since I've been drinking like this. |
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