alrite, so before i went on break for school there is this girl in this group i'm in. our group went out for dinner and me and her sat next to each other. i made her laugh a few times, then at the end of dinner she mentioned she was havin a party and she said we should come over. then she asked me if i wanted a ride home, and then in the car she was like .. you shouold really come over tonite. so i ended up goin over there. i showed up by myself and her roommates were there. anyway the nite went ok i was talking to her friends and roommates, like girls and guys, just having a good time.
we were all playin kings, then she had to go play pong b/c she was next. after that she came back and shes like "o hey, bill is coming over" this is another kid in our group, and i know that this kid used to go to her high school, and i guess on their prom night they made out.
so once she told me that he was coming over, i feel like i always feel when this happens, and that is like a huge "RETARD" i immediately lose my confidence and feel like i'm in 8th grade again and like a girl is using me.
so for the rest of the nite, that kid came over, i'm friendly w/ him so we bsed, but then the party got really packed and i got really drunk and ended up leaving b/c i felt so shitty.
but how should i take that situation and her inviting that kid over? i immediate feel competition when she said it, and i like that kid so i dont like to compete against him u know
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ya feel me? if you're confidante and demonstrate value, you'll leave this guy in the dust, hell if you know about her past with him for all we know she could have been attempting to play the jealousy card. girls are tricky man, but i hope this helped a little