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Author:  ForeverFatal125 [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 2:57 am ]
Post subject:  First Kisses/ Kiss Close
Yea this is stupid but im just looking for answers. What was everybodies first kiss like? How did you know it was the right time?, did it turn out good, bad, disgusting/slimey, etc. If you dont feel like talking about your first kiss, then maybe talk about how you; yourself do a kiss close sort of speak.

The purpose of this thread for me is to know when the time is right to do a kiss close. I just want to know so i probably won't screw up and possibly embarrass myself. I need to know for future reference

Thanks
Author:  Stygian [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 4:43 am ]
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First of all: Stop worrying about embarrasment, rejection is just another part of the game as falling off a skateboard was necessary for Tony Hawk.

Personally, my first kiss was more a case of me being tongue-raped by a bottle of vodka walking (read: falling) around in the form of my friend's ex.

As for knowing when to k-close, it's quite simple. Here's a checklist:
  • Attraction: by way of IOIs, SOIs or her trying to tongue-rape you (the latter is the scariest
  • Comfort: by way of her compliance to various compliance tests if necessary (you should be able to gauge this pretty easily
  • Isolation: not always necessary but advisable when you're first getting used to things
  • Triangular gazing: Again, not necessary but if it happens in isolation and you don't have BBQ sauce on your lip then it's basically a surefire way of knowing.
Author:  ForeverFatal125 [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 11:25 pm ]
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Ah yea i know what you mean by falling off a skateboard hahaha. Isolation is the very first thing i try to do but just knowing when to go for it is very tempting and it makes me very impatient. Now i just need the experience to make the kiss more passionate or something like that lol 8)
Author:  Jaybot [ Wed Dec 17, 2008 11:40 pm ]
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I tend to go one of two routes, first style is to go in quick literally first 10 minutes (high risk high reward), the other style is to build attraction then give them an obvious opportunity, this method would probably suit you best. Just build attraction then isolate, then pause in conversation and give them triangular gazing lean in slightly and they should do most of the work. Im sure there is a rule somewhere of kissing something like 30% effort from one 70% for another basically with this approach go for 10% effort from me 90% from her.
A classic line once isolated is do some triangular gazing then just ignore what they are saying for 3 seconds or so then butt in and say "wow, you are beautiful" if set up and delivered sincerely this is their chance and they will take it.
Author:  Stormy [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 12:00 am ]
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When the girl is emotional. There are a couple of things I like to do.

1. If I've got a decent amount of rapport with a girl (she's paying attention to you, smiling, and receptive to kino), I like to do a quick bathroom takeaway. Me: "Hey, be right back." And just peck her on the lips. Not full-on makeout; just a quick peck. And then I take off and come back. She's usually down to make out after that, because the barrier's already been broken.

2. If a girl is getting really high-energy and silly (joking around, acting crazy, saying nutty illogical stuff), I'll keep the jokey fun vibe going by telling her to stick out her tongue. And then licking it. Pull back, tell the girl she loved it, make out. In fact, this is a great response to congruence tests. :lol:

3. If a girl starts talking about something and gets herself really emotional (doesn't even matter what the emotion is... as long as it isn't anger or disgust, I guess), I say "hey, c'mere" and make out with her.

Don't be afraid to go for the makeout if she's receptive to kino. You'll get the cheek, but that just means that she's enjoying the tension. She's getting validation out of the chase, and she wants more before she'll "give in."

MAKE SURE YOU UNDERSTAND THAT.

Getting cheeked does not mean that you "failed." It means that the girl isn't ready to make out yet. You're supposed to get the cheek. This is a congruence test. She wants to see if you'll maintain your state or wuss out afterwards. Just act like it's fine that you got the cheek, keep the interaction going, and go for it again later.

Or it could just mean that you're not sufficiently isolated and she just doesn't want anyone to see her kissing some guy she just met. Isolate the girl and you've got yourself a makeout.
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