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| Author: | galliet [ Tue Dec 16, 2008 10:25 am ] |
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hey guys, i am in some little problem. most of the times after i got a kc of a phone number or none ( girls will search for me on de dutch kind of face-book ). but after chatting and asking them what are the weekend plans. or just shall we drink something soon. they all react excited. but if we wanna make an appointment they never got time. or already made plans. looking for a solution my self with her sounds desprate to me. so what is the best i could do to convince them? this problem is om msn and on the phone.. pleaze help.. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Dec 16, 2008 3:06 pm ] |
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I completely understand what you are saying and the sticking point you are hitting. I have been there a couple of times myself, and what I have found is that when I am in person with a girl I have a huge opportunity. A lot of the people around the forum are going to tell you to get a #, MSN, EMAIL and a kiss and then setup a day 2 later on. Well there is a problem with this logistically which you are hitting. So how do we fix the problem? One of the things you need to start doing is planning your Day 2s the night you meet them. Don't just talk about it setup a date! You are going out and attracting this awesome girl to you. She's vibing and having fun with your presence. Her buying temperature is the highest it's going to be at the moment. Why not setup the Day 2 now instead of a few days later when her emotions aren't flowing? When you setup then you are more likely to get a YES. A lot more likely to get it and her to go. In the mean time you still get her number but you don't need to contact her. Just meet her the few days later at the agreed upon time. You might send her a cute text that night after seeing her but that's about it. This is one way to handle it. Another thing you may have to consider is your process. Do you not have enough comfort? You got her # so I assume she's attracted to you. If you don't have enough comfort she's going to think "This is going to be awkward, he's cute, but I don't really know him. What are we going to talk about? I'll just say No." So you have to have enough comfort with her. She needs to who you are and what you are like. Also, when setting up dates avoid awkward situations like going for "coffee" because that forces people to talk. Instead look for day 2 dates where you can both be doing something like shooting pool, shopping, laser tag, etc. You can still get coffee or dinner later but it won't be as weird and have to have forced conversations. Hope all this info helps, I know I threw a lot at you, but I wanted to make sure I covered the bases. PEACE |
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| Author: | galliet [ Tue Dec 16, 2008 3:58 pm ] |
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Tahnk you very much. i am gonna do what you said. you will hear from me how it goes.. 1love |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Dec 16, 2008 4:03 pm ] |
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Quote: Tahnk you very much.
Awesome! Please do follow up with me on it.
i am gonna do what you said. you will hear from me how it goes.. 1love |
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