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| Author: | AB_12 [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 7:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What are some IOIs |
I tried using the search function to find a list already on the site but I was unsuccessful (maybe I just suck at the internet) but does anyone know/have a link to some basic IOIs that a girl can be giving you? |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 7:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: What are some IOIs |
Quote: I tried using the search function to find a list already on the site but I was unsuccessful (maybe I just suck at the internet) but does anyone know/have a link to some basic IOIs that a girl can be giving you?
I was able to search for IOI. Sometimes the search does get funky so I appreciate you trying it first. Otherwise I would be lecturing you, LOL!! Just kididing mate, here is list to a huge list of IOIs I made.iois-the-completed-list-vt12718.html?highlight This should help you out |
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| Author: | Stormy [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 8:07 pm ] |
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You can try to memorize a list of IOIs, but there are only four that I even bother looking for (because they're really easy to spot): 1. Girl touches you. Obvious, easy to spot, communicates attraction AND comfort. The girl wants you to pay attention to her and touch her back. 2. Girl compliments you. Girl is trying for rapport with you. She wants you to like her and pay attention to her. 3. Girls asks you rapport questions. Girl is attracted to you and wants more comfort. She wants to see what's below the surface. Let her get to know you. 4. Girl qualifies herself to you. Girl wants to impress you. She wants you to like her. You should be escalating regardless of IOIs, because a lot of girls are simply shy about letting guys know that they like them because they're afraid of getting rejected. But if you get one of these, you REALLY need to hit the gas. If you catch one of these, it's probably time to isolate. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 8:13 pm ] |
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Quote: You should be escalating regardless of IOIs, because a lot of girls are simply shy about letting guys know that they like them because they're afraid of getting rejected. But if you get one of these, you REALLY need to hit the gas. If you catch one of these, it's probably time to isolate.
I agree that kino escalation should really be happening anyways. As far as memorizing IOIs he's right that it's not really needed but it helps. The main IOIs are listed at the bottom of the list I gave you as well. Typically, when you see one of the main IOIs you have probably missed 2 or 3 as they are so subtle they pass by quickly. From video taping students in field it's amazing how many you see when you play tapes back. |
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| Author: | AB_12 [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 8:16 pm ] |
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I can't see a list in the link you gave me lol. I guess it is in the paid portion of the site? Because all I can see is ads to subscribe to the paid section |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Mon Dec 15, 2008 8:24 pm ] |
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Quote: I can't see a list in the link you gave me lol.
My bad...Here you go this should help. I guess it is in the paid portion of the site? Because all I can see is ads to subscribe to the paid section I am reposting this in the PMZ because so many people have responded to this original thread, and it's a great source of information. Also, I don't want to type this out again! *She reinitiates conversations when you stop talking *She giggles *She touches you *She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you *She looks back and glances at you repeatedly ever minute or so *She tosses her hair (to see if you will look) *If eye contact happens from a distance, she holds it for a second *She smiles at you *She stands nearby (proximity) *She interrupts your conversation from nearby or laughs at something you said *While walking by, she turns her body toward you or brushes against you *She says something to her friend and they both giggle *She asks you for a light or the time or in any way initiates a conversation *While you're talking to her group, she is particularly talkative (to get your attention) *She asks you for your name *She asks you your age (make her guess) *She compliments you *She is playful and tries to challenge you *She's disagreeing but laughing *She's punching your arm but laughing *She uses nicknames for you *She plays with her hair while talking to you *When she is sitting next to you her leg touches yours *She repeatedly touches you in any way *She asks if you have a girlfriend *She mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you actually have one *When she has to go to the bathroom, she comes back *She holds eye contact for longer periods of time when she speaks with you *She avoids mentioning her boyfriend *If it comes up that you like somthing, she mentions that she likes it, too, or needs someone to show her how to do it *When she says or does something, she looks at you to see your reaction *She looks at you from the side, to hide the fact that she's looking *She introduces you to friends *She buys you a drink *She calls you a player or a heartbreaker *On her way out, she reapproaches you to tell you that she is leaving (Get her #) *On your way out, she asks you where you are going (Invite her) *She returns your calls *She invents reasons to be near you, intereact with you, or have isolation with you *She mirrors your gestures Passive IOIs *Her friends go (to the bathroom or bar or dancing) but she stays *She moves to see you and hangs with you for extended periods *If you move, she follows you or waits for you *She doesn't flinch or pull back if you happen to get too close *She doesn't resist when you escalate physically (or she gives token resistence to avoid feeling like a slut) The most important IOIs to look for are: *She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking *She giggles *She touches you *She tries to get rapport and build comfort with you Happy Sarging |
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| Author: | ForeverFatal125 [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 12:04 am ] |
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That list is awesome, so you should be able to find 3 or more IOI's before moving into a kiss close? |
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| Author: | Stormy [ Thu Dec 18, 2008 12:08 am ] |
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Quote: That list is awesome, so you should be able to find 3 or more IOI's before moving into a kiss close?
Naah. You can make out with a girl with NO IOIs. Just get her emotional.
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