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| Author: | Belushy [ Wed May 02, 2007 7:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Sticking point.. |
I'm getting better... Having less fear of approaching people, and getting more comfortable with women. This weekend I came really close to kissing a lady! On thing stopped me though..., I wanted to kiss her and I really had the feeling she wanted to kiss me too. It felt like she acted like it and I didn't go any further. My reason was that she is from work. I know her trough work and she is really nice, a body of a 10 and a face of a 9. I didn't want to go ahead with it because she and I still had to work together. It is not that she works close to me, but we see eachother when we work together or on trainings. Last week we were at one of these trainings and I spend some time talking to her in a club. We spend lovely time together and there was some tension that I felt. But how do I find out if she has it to. On one hand I feel that I am making excuses again, because of work. But what would happen if I would fail. What would happen is she said no and I had to face her the next day. I don't know if I could handle the shame... How do you deal with this stuff? What are good ways to test if she is into kissing at that moment. Into taking being together away from work. She lives in Madrid, I live in Rome. It is not that that is really close.. She did ask me to come over to Madrid and she would show me this club there. But should I go alone? Then I would come over a needy I think, and that is not what I want. What does it mean when a girl askes me to come to her city, and she said she wants to come to mine? How do I test if a girl is into kissing me? She looks me deap in the eye and I sometimes catch her looking at me, when I am doing something else. Should I risk the shame? Should I go to her in Madrid, alone and hope to get her there? Or should I let her come here and see what I can do here. If she comes alone, that maybe means something. I have a lot of trouble finding a way out..! Hoping for help... |
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| Author: | osiris [ Wed May 02, 2007 10:29 pm ] |
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just by reading that id say you just have to get her talking about attraction, and when she looks at you directly in the eye while youre talking for go for it. Im gonna say that she wants to come visit you in Rome, and wants you to visit her in Madrid as a big IOI. |
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| Author: | El Tiburon [ Thu May 03, 2007 12:43 am ] |
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You guys are not even in the same country and you are still worried she is from work. This is how you can overcome your sticking point. Do the soul gazing technique. Since you have a good chemistry with her, it will be easy to do it. You: So I was reading this book on mind reading and it says in there that by gazing in someone eyes for 30 seconds you can read their mind. You wanna try? HB: Uhm, sure. Why not. You: Ok, I will stare in your eyes from really close for 30 seconds and then I'll tell you what you were thinking about. Lean forward and bring your face close to her keeping about 2 or 3 inches distance. Look deep inside her eyes with a serious expression on your face, concentrate, make it look like you are really doing that "mind reading" technique. She will most likely look into your eyes too. When you think the moment is right turn your head slightly and give her a soft kiss. She will most likely kiss you back. When you are done, tell her: your mind told me you really wanted this. There you have it. Do a field report once you do this technique. I am sure it's gonna work. |
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