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Author:  aam331 [ Sat Dec 06, 2008 9:14 am ]
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I have never been the greatest at reading women, I mean if any man really could would we need to learn PUA. Even I can tell this is an AFC question, but how do you learn? Ask! Anyway Im in college and Ive known this hb7 for a wile. I go to school far from home but she is from the the same area. I met her in a class last spring and it was way before id even herd of PUA. I, being an AFC and lacking game pulled the standard crap, fluf talk on the way back from class ect. Got the impression she was trying to blow me off after we hung out a few times over the summer so I deleted her number.

I run into her a few time over this semester, say hi but quickly leave, don't express any interest. A few weeks after halfway through i bump into her, she sees me sitting on a bench talking to a classmate, and she bitches me out for not calling her. I don't buy much into it because I liked this girl but had written her off. I bump into her a few more times, small talk, same shit. But once more she bitches me out for not calling her. A few days later she texts me asking to use my car. Naturally I smell a rat, a girl I haven't really talked to in mouths asking to use my car, WTF!!! So I tell her no, not expecting to get a response. she responds that shes sad or sum shit. By this time Im getting real confused so I start teasing her.

IDK if i pushed it too far but she accuses me of being mean, so I tell her that im board and she is amusing me. She responds bla bla bla so I tell her I need to go and she responds "call me later". This gets me thinking, she has never called me. She has called back and responded to txts but has never started contact. I just dont get it. The conclusion I reached was that she likes me. Why else would she tell me to call her many times but not call me? I honestly don't know, just an AFC.

I have assumed she does and acted accordingly but am once more confused by this relationship so Ive been reevaluating this conclusion. Any insight would be helpful.
Author:  TheMasterPlan [ Sat Dec 06, 2008 12:14 pm ]
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Not really easy to read into this story, but

Sounds like you've meet some really needy messed up girl. Probably a little attracted to you and frustrated with herself since you haven't made moves on her. She's shit testing you. Seems like she's trying to play her game on you.

I'd say screw this girl, there are a lot better out there worth your time. At least, don't let her use you for things she haven't earned. Borrowing your car would be retarded. Unfortunately, in my WBAFC days I fell for this stuff, developed a loooong ugly one-itis, then started truly hating :)
Author:  gabzlora [ Sat Dec 06, 2008 5:47 pm ]
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now that she sees that you dont give a shit about her.. she is confused and she is starting to like because of the mystery around you. at the begining she probably knew for sure you were into her but now that she doesnt see you like that she is going crazy to call your attention..

now it is up to you if you wanna be with this girl.. and whatever you decide tell act according to it. for example if you decide not to date her or smtgh tell her to leave you alone because i can clearly see that she is affecting you when you are with some other ppl.
Author:  SiNfUl [ Sat Dec 06, 2008 8:38 pm ]
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But once more she bitches me out for not calling her.

In my experience, these types of girls love the drama and emotional roller coaster ride. If you are nice, they find a reason to degrade, bitch or test you (out of boredom). But if you act like a dick, they switch gears and do everything they can to please you. I know it makes no sense, but hey, what woman does?

These types of girls are great in bed though, so if you can handle her psycho tendencies, have fun. 8)
Author:  Shatter [ Sat Dec 06, 2008 9:09 pm ]
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But once more she bitches me out for not calling her.

In my experience, these types of girls love the drama and emotional roller coaster ride. If you are nice, they find a reason to degrade, bitch or test you (out of boredom). But if you act like a dick, they switch gears and do everything they can to please you. I know it makes no sense, but hey, what woman does?

These types of girls are great in bed though, so if you can handle her psycho tendencies, have fun. 8)
i completely agree. this is not the kind of girl to have a relationship with, sorry man, but if you end it now it will be better in the long run
Author:  anutharound [ Sun Dec 07, 2008 2:41 am ]
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But once more she bitches me out for not calling her.

In my experience, these types of girls love the drama and emotional roller coaster ride. If you are nice, they find a reason to degrade, bitch or test you (out of boredom). But if you act like a dick, they switch gears and do everything they can to please you. I know it makes no sense, but hey, what woman does?

These types of girls are great in bed though, so if you can handle her psycho tendencies, have fun.
I disagree to assume this off of the info given is a pretty ridiculous claim to make in my opinion. What's the usefulness in assuming such negative things about people. All girls are pretty awesome in my opinion, sure they have their quirks and fuckups, but thats what I love about them is that no one is the same. Kind of like a good wine, or cigar, or car, or anything you love.

Is it not possible that she wants you to call her because she fucking likes you? And either way what's the drawback of assuming she's attracted to you? In my opinion she has gone out of her way 3 times to try and get to know you and you have denied it 3 times. How much of a hint do you need???? It cracks me up lol.
Instead of worrying so much about reading girls, assume they are attracted to you and save yourself some work.

If you are wondering why she doesn't call you. In my experience girls only call me when they are comfortable with me already. It seems that you have not given her a chance to be this comfortable with you. You are still in the attraction phase. Imagine what it's like to be her. There's this guy she likes and really wants to talk to, but its customary for the guy to call her. She asks herself.. I should call him, but what if he doesn't like me and thinks it's weird. What if he thinks I'm insecure because I called him.
and then there's you sitting there. I should call her, but what if she doesn't like me and thinks it's weird? What if she thinks im insecure because I called her. Somebody has to step up and make a move, it might as well be you. If you don't at least try its not going anywhere. If you do try and fail then you have grown stronger from it. Either way the only way you can lose is if you don't act.
Author:  suave.yourbestfriend [ Sun Dec 07, 2008 5:20 am ]
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be a cocky dick around her. She's doesnt sound like gf material but could be a fun time. Don't act overly interested in her. Clearly that wont work. Have a good time with her, show off all your confidence but I wouldn't get attached.
Author:  SiNfUl [ Sun Dec 07, 2008 3:05 pm ]
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But once more she bitches me out for not calling her.

In my experience, these types of girls love the drama and emotional roller coaster ride. If you are nice, they find a reason to degrade, bitch or test you (out of boredom). But if you act like a dick, they switch gears and do everything they can to please you. I know it makes no sense, but hey, what woman does?

These types of girls are great in bed though, so if you can handle her psycho tendencies, have fun.
I disagree to assume this off of the info given is a pretty ridiculous claim to make in my opinion. What's the usefulness in assuming such negative things about people. All girls are pretty awesome in my opinion, sure they have their quirks and fuckups, but thats what I love about them is that no one is the same. Kind of like a good wine, or cigar, or car, or anything you love.

Is it not possible that she wants you to call her because she fucking likes you? And either way what's the drawback of assuming she's attracted to you? In my opinion she has gone out of her way 3 times to try and get to know you and you have denied it 3 times. How much of a hint do you need???? It cracks me up lol.
Instead of worrying so much about reading girls, assume they are attracted to you and save yourself some work.

If you are wondering why she doesn't call you. In my experience girls only call me when they are comfortable with me already. It seems that you have not given her a chance to be this comfortable with you. You are still in the attraction phase. Imagine what it's like to be her. There's this guy she likes and really wants to talk to, but its customary for the guy to call her. She asks herself.. I should call him, but what if he doesn't like me and thinks it's weird. What if he thinks I'm insecure because I called him.
and then there's you sitting there. I should call her, but what if she doesn't like me and thinks it's weird? What if she thinks im insecure because I called her. Somebody has to step up and make a move, it might as well be you. If you don't at least try its not going anywhere. If you do try and fail then you have grown stronger from it. Either way the only way you can lose is if you don't act.
I can see where you are coming from anutharound, and I respect your point of view. However, there is one small problem with your post; you are thinking logically and rationally about this girl lol.

If a girl were to approach me and start bitching about my lack of communication (instead of having an adult conversation about the matter), then turns around and asks me to borrow my car, rationality is thrown out of the window, along with my respect. And in my experience, the only way to get a positive response from this type of girl is by using the approach I mentioned before.

I have dealt with these types of women in the past, believe me when I tell you that rationality and stability is not part of the equation.

Is it possible that I jumped the gun on this one, sure...anything is possible, but I SERIOUSLY doubt it.

Good luck aam31!
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