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Author:  Mylo [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 11:24 pm ]
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Alright so here it goes.

This girl I was gaming was pretty much in love with me. I could not do anything with her because it was at school. Then she starts getting all awkward around me.

Later, I find out that she has a boyfriend. Too bad. So that's all fine. Then she broke up with him and started talking to me again, but it still wasn't the same as before.

So now she is really mad at me for some reason and I don't know why. Should I ask her? What should I do here?

It's no big deal, I'm just kind of curious why this happened.

Thanks in advance.
Author:  Playerone [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 11:37 pm ]
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How old are you? High school? School girls have an attention span of a goldfish. /exaggeration. They also have the libido of a dog in heat. /exaggeration

Did you # close her at one point?

I had this exact thing happen to me. A girl I was gaming with (Who I was not at all attracted to, therefore I didn't even progress with her); She would always single me out in class and throw so many obvious IOIs at me but I ignored them, so eventually she got frustrated and stopped, and now she hates me.
Author:  KAPSTAR [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 11:37 pm ]
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I would just flat out ask her if anything is wrong...
Author:  Playerone [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 11:42 pm ]
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I would just flat out ask her if anything is wrong...
Meh, if you're interested in her this will give the stronger impression that you need her. Desperate is the last impression you need to make at this point. (It will even remind her why she doesn't like you.)

I suggest being a funny guy, maybe still game her a little. If you find at least one IOI while you talk to her again, I think there's hope for you. DO NOT NEG HER!
Author:  Mylo [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 11:44 pm ]
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Well, I have, but she is definitely the most awkward person I have ever met. And I'm pretty awkward, but I make it funny so it's all good. For my birthday she's like, "I'm going to get you half of a starbucks." And that is what she did. I didn't even drink it. That's gross.

But anyways, for her birthday I got her something small, like a chocolate or something, but then she never tried to find me. I assumed she was avoiding me, so I ate it. Haha. That might have ticked her off.

Anyway. I am in high school. And she does have the attention span of a goldfish. Anyways I guess I'll just ask her.

The thing is though, she's been ignoring me. Like I tried talking to her about her ignoring my myspace message today and she talked for like 3 seconds and then was like, "I have to go." I don't know what to do.

Tips?
Author:  Playerone [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 11:53 pm ]
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Okay now I see the situation :?

So you've known each other for a while (longer than 3 weeks).

She knows you like her. But she considers you a friend at this far in the future. Its very rare for a girl, especially in high school, not to think of a guy as a friend after that long. Even if she dumped her BF.

For a girl, talking to a friend whom she knows likes her can be really awkward. I've taken it from several sources. You've limited yourself into only a few choices:

At this point your only choices are to back away from her and let her forget about you | somehow become her best friend and then make the leap from the friend zone to the relationship zone | or start gaming her friends, get them to like you.

Every girl has "THAT GUY" that follows her around. Aka the stalker. PUAs are not stalkers. Pick yourself off the ground and dust yourself off. You have a very bumpy road.

Question: Is she a theater type?
Author:  Desmaro [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 12:08 am ]
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1. Don't allow her to get under your skin, calling or messeging too often is not masculine for example (messaging/calling 2x's before she responds back).

2. Gauge the situation, what place has she put you in, friend status or potential mate.

3. Neg and be authoritative, If you see her in person it's better to say something along the lines of stop whining, I don't hang out with babies. etc.
Smile, do some non threathing kino, then talk to her one on one.

4. If she's being a bit** to you. Move to a new target who she would find as a competitor. Respond to her less and less, never take her bs.
Author:  Playerone [ Tue Dec 02, 2008 12:15 am ]
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3. Neg and be authoritative, If you see her in person it's better to say something along the lines of stop whining, I don't hang out with babies. etc.
Smile, do some non threathing kino, then talk to her one on one.
At this point negging would be one of the worst things to do. Once your ship is sinking its a bad idea to keep putting holes in it.
Author:  Mylo [ Thu Dec 04, 2008 11:21 pm ]
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Alright, yea I agree with playerone. I'm not new at this, I've just never have had someone suddenly stop talking to me and get mad for no reason. Should I ask her through myspace why she's mad and if so, how should I ask?
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