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Author:  abc1555 [ Sun Nov 30, 2008 4:43 am ]
Post subject:  Second approach! give me some comments :)

I was at my college over at the cafeteria while waiting for my next class. I see this really cute white girl sitting by herself just with a textbook out, so im just like **** it! and I open her directly

Me(sits down) : Hey im just meeting new people today. I thought you might be interesting to talk to. What's your name? (smile)

Her : Melissa, nice to meet you. What's your name?

Me : abc1555, hey you got a really pretty name it really suits you. Did your mother pick that name?

After a little convo about that I make a funny story about my name
-I was sitting across from her at the time
"I noticed something interesting about your hand, let me see it"
-I now stand up and sit next to her and have her hand again, examining it.

I go into the finger routine I found in this site (many thanks for that one)
Me :Hey let me see your hand... interesting. When the ring finger is longer than the index finger it means you got more testosterone than estrogen, counterwise to having a longer index finger than a ring finger which makes you have more estrogen than testosterone

Your index finger is longer, which means you are a little girly girl. You probably love pink, probably got a little pink buggie out in the parking lot, with little flowers and barbie written on the hood(smile)

-She buys this one and starts laughing denying it

Me : Oh and I just heard of this psychology stuff in my philosophy class a while ago.

Her : cool, what is it??

Me :Our minds are so powerful. Have you ever heard of thought suppression? No? Well it’s the idea that our minds have a hard time taking suggestions and commands and will often do the exact opposite of what we tell it to do. Like for instance right now... DON'T think about a red polar bear. You see, when I said that you couldn’t help but think just for just a split second what a red polar bear would look like. Now you see that big fat guy over there….DON'T PICTURE HIM NAKED.
:) You perv. I can’t be hanging out with a girl who pictures fat guys naked all the time. That’s just gross. (smile)

I go into comfort now and rapport
Me: So hey what's up what are you trying to do after college?

Her: I really want to become a nurse, it's my passion I really want to help people.

Me: It's weird, you seem like this crazy party girl, but really you've got this determination to do what you need to do, and i'm the same way. It's like my friends think i'm just trying to get over college, but they don't get that I have these very ambitious goals and i'm working towards them every day. Like my plan as soon as as I finish college and university is to become a psychologist and start my own therapist clinic, hire a few therapists and go from there. And it's going to be hard, and crazy, but I dont care cuhz im really stubborn and i'm going to do it.

-We both just look at each other and smile and she tells me a story of hers about determination.

Me : That's cool, hey I didn't want to point this out as you were talking but you smell really good :)

Her : Thanks, you do too.

-I change the subject quick to leave her thinking a little more about us
Me : I look really white huh. Would you be surprised that I speak perfect spanish and im not even close to being caucasian. :)

Her : You really do look white haha! Well im a little hispanic myself, guess were pretty similar.

We go into a little small talk and then I ask her a comfort question
Me : Hey so I was thinking about this in my previous class while the teacher was talking about morals and stuff, What experience in life has defined you?

Her : (story)

Me : Alright well im out of time. It was nice talking to you I gotta get going though, what's your number? (hand her my phone)

(I stand up)
Alright give me a hug, (she hugs me)
Wow, that was a weak hug hahah (hugs me harder) there you go! alright adios.

And I left with a smile on my face and my second number.


Sorry for the long post, I wanted to know if I did direct game well and what tips I can do for it to be better.

Thanks mucho guys!

Author:  SqHizzel [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 1:35 am ]
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damn dat was goood

Author:  Cinnamon Spice [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 1:48 am ]
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Very nice, very nice.

A word of advice though, post something like this in the Field Report Section then. Most people there can give you good advice on how to make your game better.

Cinnamon

Author:  alexle92 [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 1:53 am ]
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Love what you did. Smooth. Keep it up.

Author:  scott89 [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 2:11 am ]
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You say that was only your second approach? Just... WOW!! :shock:

There really is little to say, it's pretty slick. As for a tip for improvement, the only thing that really stands out for me is where she opened up to you about wanting to help people as a nurse. You connected well but if you want to really leave her thinking to herself "WOW" then you should continue talking about her for slightly longer before THEN bringing it back to "It's like my friends think I'm just trying to get over college....".

It's really no huge deal though, it would appear that you did perfectly fine, you'll have to let us know how the day 2 went (were you planning on one?)

Author:  abc1555 [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 4:44 am ]
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Yeah she texted me plans of going to Frisco this coming saturday, hopefully it all goes good :)

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