PUA Forum :: how to tell a girl your interested??

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Simple answer, you DON'T...

Yep. Unless you have seriously powerful inner game and your perceived value is higher than hers, you don't offer her validation by admitting attraction towards her. You don't tell her or let her know that you are interested until she has definitively demonstrated it to you first.

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Tell her that you think something about her is sexy. Use the word "sexy."

after i tell her that what should i expect to hear??

You shouldn't expect or be looking for a response. If you are, then you will be seeking validation, and you will look needy in her eyes. If you are going to say a line like that then you have to let it roll off you like it's no big deal, and be very comfortable moving on to a different subject or even walking away.

Saying something like this will let her know that you are interested in her as more than a friend. You will push some away by doing this, but you will not get 'friend zoned' or flaked out on.

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but whats the M3 model?

Mystery Method. A (attraction) 1,2,3. C (comfort) 1,2,3. S (seduction) 1,2,3.
A1 is opening
A2 is negging/DHVing to build attraction
A3 is having her validate herself to you
C1-3 are just fluff talk and getting to know each other. Mystery recommends different locations.
S1-3 is kino escalating to sex. Always takes place in a private location (ie. your bedroom)

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and k close?

kiss close. Kino escalate (keep touching and taking away, building up from hand to hug, etc...) until enough rapport is reached or she maintains long enough eye contact where you can kiss.

Author:	Johnx [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 6:15 am ]
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so this girl who im interested in!.. and i thik shes interested too..... i wanna tell her im interested in her.. how can i go about telling her? and what to do if i get shot down? like a back up plan!

Author:	puanumpty [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 10:12 am ]
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Bit of a weak post but as you've asked you must genuinely need the help... Simple answer, you DON'T... You get her on a date, you run game then you kiss close her or better... If a long kiss doesn't scream I'm interested and her enjoying it screams back I'm interested too then it imagine it'll be a long day at the office for y'all. Good luck with it

Author:	TheLibra [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 6:21 pm ]
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Yea bro def dont tell her your interested. As stated earlier just go for that k-close.

Author:	punkstar [ Sat Nov 29, 2008 6:30 am ]
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Bait- Hook -Release u gotta qualify her,, dont u know the M3 model?

Author:	Chief [ Sat Nov 29, 2008 7:54 pm ]
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Tell her that you think something about her is sexy. Use the word "sexy."

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Author:	Johnx [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 12:26 am ]
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Quote: Tell her that you think something about her is sexy. Use the word "sexy." after i tell her that what should i expect to hear?? but whats the M3 model? and k close?

Author:	Plethora [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 1:12 am ]
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Quote: Simple answer, you DON'T... Yep. Unless you have seriously powerful inner game and your perceived value is higher than hers, you don't offer her validation by admitting attraction towards her. You don't tell her or let her know that you are interested until she has definitively demonstrated it to you first. Quote: Quote: Tell her that you think something about her is sexy. Use the word "sexy." after i tell her that what should i expect to hear?? You shouldn't expect or be looking for a response. If you are, then you will be seeking validation, and you will look needy in her eyes. If you are going to say a line like that then you have to let it roll off you like it's no big deal, and be very comfortable moving on to a different subject or even walking away. Saying something like this will let her know that you are interested in her as more than a friend. You will push some away by doing this, but you will not get 'friend zoned' or flaked out on. Quote: but whats the M3 model? Mystery Method. A (attraction) 1,2,3. C (comfort) 1,2,3. S (seduction) 1,2,3. A1 is opening A2 is negging/DHVing to build attraction A3 is having her validate herself to you C1-3 are just fluff talk and getting to know each other. Mystery recommends different locations. S1-3 is kino escalating to sex. Always takes place in a private location (ie. your bedroom) Quote: and k close? kiss close. Kino escalate (keep touching and taking away, building up from hand to hug, etc...) until enough rapport is reached or she maintains long enough eye contact where you can kiss.

Author:	Johnx [ Mon Dec 01, 2008 3:37 am ]
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Quote: Quote: Simple answer, you DON'T... Yep. Unless you have seriously powerful inner game and your perceived value is higher than hers, you don't offer her validation by admitting attraction towards her. You don't tell her or let her know that you are interested until she has definitively demonstrated it to you first. Quote: Quote: Tell her that you think something about her is sexy. Use the word "sexy." after i tell her that what should i expect to hear?? You shouldn't expect or be looking for a response. If you are, then you will be seeking validation, and you will look needy in her eyes. If you are going to say a line like that then you have to let it roll off you like it's no big deal, and be very comfortable moving on to a different subject or even walking away. Saying something like this will let her know that you are interested in her as more than a friend. You will push some away by doing this, but you will not get 'friend zoned' or flaked out on. Quote: but whats the M3 model? Mystery Method. A (attraction) 1,2,3. C (comfort) 1,2,3. S (seduction) 1,2,3. A1 is opening A2 is negging/DHVing to build attraction A3 is having her validate herself to you C1-3 are just fluff talk and getting to know each other. Mystery recommends different locations. S1-3 is kino escalating to sex. Always takes place in a private location (ie. your bedroom) Quote: and k close? kiss close. Kino escalate (keep touching and taking away, building up from hand to hug, etc...) until enough rapport is reached or she maintains long enough eye contact where you can kiss. \ dude this helps out alot!! thanks.. so anyways.. ppl have been telling me shes interested but i can go for it unless i know she is.. so last night we hung out at my friends party.. we were talking i would stretch and raise my arms and she would go for my stomach and try to tickle me.. and then she was playing with my hair.. when i would talk to her.. i placed my hand on her back a little below mid back level.. she was feeling me alot so i mean..im gonna keep it at this pase and after the party ppl were calling me out.. asking me when did we start talking and what not.. so i mean if its visible to other ppl it should be apparent that she is interested correct?/ but i dont need to rush things since im kinda trying to go for more than just a hook up..

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