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| Author: | EVAN1989 [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 2:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | more confused after reading all top PUA books |
hey im new to the seduction scene and have been reading all of the biggest seducers books like Gamblers, Deangelos and mysteries. I think im a little bit more confused now on how to deal with women because all three PUA's have different styles. Which one should I start practicing in clubs or should I try them all out or interweave certain details from all three? Also what do you think about Gamblers audio programs. Do they really help? thanks Evan |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 3:07 am ] |
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I know exactly where you are here I literally read everything and ended up with a jumble of a1 vacuums and all sorts of other theories mixed up in my head, I think your best bet is to go out and see what you remember without thinking. This will help you clear your mind, which is important. I would also re-write material in your own words and if anything doesn't seem like you ditch it. There is a time and a place for going outside your comfort zone but there is also a time for seeing what suits you. I am a tad drunk so i will try to wrap this up, look at the core messages of the different techniques, think why does this work not how can I use this. Like mysteries a1-a3 etc god that confused the hell out of me until I made it relevant to myself. Basically take the best bits from the different styles, make them relevant to yourself and go from there. Give me a PM if you need any help |
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| Author: | Harleystcool [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 3:09 am ] |
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hey broseph, Its not the styles, its the principles. What do these guys all have in common? Playfullness, Insinuation, Trust, that desire to get better. Use the principles and yourself, we're all unique, so if you better yourself, you'll become skilled on the same lvl as them, but you'll retain the good quilities you've got, just like any other person on this forum, they'll bring there unique character to the field. Choose what ever you think you like, pick out all the stuff you can use. I'm not that great either, but i have had some experience and a longer time to think about this subject, i'm sure you'll get better in no time since your actually taking the steps to get better. Good luck to you sir |
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| Author: | Cinnamon Spice [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 3:12 am ] |
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Yup, each PUA has their own style. What you need to do is put your books down, get out and sarge your butt off now. Find out what works and what doesn't for you personally. You are not Gambler, Mystery, Style or any of them. You need your own personal style. So go out, find a club, bar or wherever you can to sarge your butt off. Make approaches, try out a million different techniques go until you have talked to every person on the area. Then go back, write up a FR, find out what worked, what didn't and go from there. Keep refining until you've got it down. Then you know what you do? Pick up a new book (I'd suggest some of Juggler's stuff), read it, then repeat. PUA is like any art, it is constantly evolving and each artist is going through evolution with it. Good luck, Cinnamon |
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| Author: | EVAN1989 [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 3:26 am ] |
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Ok. So i Should go out and just practice practice and practice.. I will do that. But what do you guys think about gamblers audio programs for those who have tried it. I am somewhat low on confidence. The approaching confidence one looks interesting. Should I invest my time and money into it or are there other ways to get my confidence level up? |
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| Author: | MiStaR X [ Fri Nov 28, 2008 7:23 am ] |
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There is not 1 style or method that works all the time or else wed all be using it. You should take what you like in each persons method and incorporate it into your own game in your own way. |
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