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| Author: | Ultima Weapon [ Wed Nov 26, 2008 7:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Seeking Advice |
First let me tell you about myself. I am an attractive guy. People tell me this all the time. "You should pose for Abercrombie" or "You're going to be famous one day." Women approch me at clubs and I have no problem approching women. I am outgoing and when at a party, I'm usually the center of attention. So what's my problem? The girls I date are always hot. My relationships don't last very long. And though, every girl I've ever had sex with has be gorgous, the times I've had sex are few and far between. I used to think it was because I was to picky but I was lying to myself. My problem is that girls lose interest in me. Whether it be short term or long term. The girls I do sleep with, usually do because they're pretty shallow and are only attracted to be based on my looks. I'm the guy girls intially mess around with, but end up wanting to stick me in the "best friend" catagory. I'm sick of it. And when I meet girls at clubs/bars it seems like we hit it off for a while but the conversation slowly dies down. I just recently started reading "The Game" and have already learned a lot of errors in my ways. What is some advice you could give me to keeping a conversation going? As far as keeping a relationship going, I'm sick of trying. I don't need the heart ache and disappointments anymore. I'm ready to just play the game. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Wed Nov 26, 2008 8:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Seeking Advice |
Quote: What is some advice you could give me to keeping a conversation going?
lol You might as well have asked "How do I game?" Do some research, try some stuff, and find out what your specific sticking points are to narrow down your questions so we can help you better.
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| Author: | Plethora [ Wed Nov 26, 2008 9:28 am ] |
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You have to understand, looks does not equal attraction for women. It isn't the same thing that men feel, we almost solely base attraction on looks. Being a good looking guy will get you attention, and women will prefer you, not be automatically attracted to you. There is nothing wrong with being good looking, but it can't get you from point A to point Z in and of itself. This is my theory about good looking men: Men care about looks way more than women too. Surprisingly, men care more about other men's looks more than women care about them. Because of this, good looking men are put on a pedestal (along with good looking women) at a very young age and are usually treated better. Consequently, these types of guys are usually more social, comfortable, and confident around men and women alike. They usually naturally tend to gain alpha male qualities, greatly in comparison to the short, pimply geek who plays WoW at home all day. When women see men at clubs, they use stereotypes to assume certain qualities to certain men. They assume high social value in good looking men because of past experiences in their lives. They assume that these archetypes are leaders of men (having men put them on a pedestal and hang on to their words), have women in their lives, and are quite socially adept. They will approach you for sure because they want to you to prove yourself as the high status male your archetype tells them you are. If you aren't, and you have no game, then they will walk away or LJBF you. The more seasoned (not age, but experience in dealing with men) the woman, the more this applies. Women are testing you by being overly flirtatious towards you, and if you bite then you fail. Remember, you ARE that alpha male who has lots of women in your life. She guessed it, now you have to prove it. Don't take her shit and don't react to her. Tease her to death and push her away. The less you show attraction to her, the more attraction she will feel towards you. But please do this in a playful way and not give her the cold shoulder, that will get you no where. |
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