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| Author: | mason [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 12:39 am ] |
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Hi, I have a class with a hb9... She always flirts with me, laughs at all of my jokes, etc. So one day I just slipped her my phone number and gave her a look. She gave me the sexiest look I have ever seen, and gave me her phone number. I texted her for the next few days, doing what I thought was a really good job of not trying too hard. A few days later I'm late for class... I walk in slowly and confidently, not glancing at anyone or apologizing for my lateness. So later that day in this class we have a group project we have to select groups for...she comes over and writes her name on my paper to be in my group... Some other guy also joins our group. We flirt a lot that day, her sitting on my lap, etc. After class she walks around the school with me for ~30 mins..trying to find one of my buddies who has my guitar. We find it and she has to go change for cheerleading practice. I say "I should help you change" She gives me a look and says - "You should." I start to follow her into the girls locker room, but there are lots of people in there allready, so I just tell her goodbye and leave. Later that night, she calls me and I talk to her on the phone for about 15 mins. She tells me about all of the girls that want me, and says I should settle down with a girl... so I'm very pre-selected in her eyes.. The next day I come into this class and she tells the teacher she wants to be in a group by herself. I had seen her talking to her ex-boyfriend earlier that day, and crying.. She won't speak to me.. I asked her whats wrong a few times but she wouldn't talk. I tickle her and I get a smile out of her, but then she goes back to her depressed look, ignoring me. So I joined another group and acted like nothing happened. The other guy is still in her group, and she talks to him, but I'm pretty sure she's not attracted to him. Her not talking to me has gone on for 2 days, and now its the weekend. My questions are- One- is there anything I did wrong as far as game goes? Two - How should I react to this? Should I simply act as if nothing has happened? Or should I call her, or maybe talk to her after class on monday? If I do, what should I say? sorry about the long post...thanks for your help.. |
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| Author: | Mr. Fickle [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 12:51 am ] |
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did you make a move. yes or no? |
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| Author: | mason [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 1:19 am ] |
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Did I make a move? I'm not sure I understand what you mean. I guess I made a move saying I should undress her... The move I'm confused about making is reacting to her. |
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| Author: | Mr. Fickle [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 3:17 am ] |
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from my experience if you didn't kiss her (pull the trigger) she prolly lose interest and give up some girls are generous and give lots of time, others will give you one single chance. I dont know what you've done so far but lets start with 1. text her, act like nothings wrong maybe say somehting funny idk use your personality. if she responds quickly your in the green. if she starts using one word answers then you've gotta build some more attraction tell funny storys find commanilities. if she starts talking to you like regular qualify her a lil then build some comfort... if she takes hours to respond then you are not priority numero uno in her life...yet. (that's how I gauge if girls like me or not. girls don't respond to texts to guys they don't like or want to talk to. this is because there is no social obligation to respond) that doesn't mean you should start stressin over weather girls replys or not, it doesn't matter it just is a good way to figure out what area's you need to work on. im guessing you joined this fourm just to improve your chances with this one girl? |
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| Author: | mason [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 3:28 am ] |
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Nah, I joined it way before this girl, this was just my first post.. I'm a sort of a natural, because I have always analysed body language and psychology... I'm just looking to learn more on these forums, in addition to some books I have bought. She doesnt have a cellphone, only a home phone... So I can call her, but not text her. I don't want to convey too much interest by calling her though. |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 3:36 am ] |
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Not enough info because you don't know what her relationship is like with her "ex". There's a chance she might want him back. Now if her mind is seesawing back and forth from him and you, you have to pull THE move. Teasing and flirting isn't going to do it. You're going against a guy who's already tapped her. You have to demonstrate that you'll give her "emotional support, physical support, sexual support, etc . . ." Otherwise, she'll always stick with the "knowns" in her life. She's already had all of these things with the ex. With you, all of her NEEDS are up in the air. So far, she knows she can count on you for flirt sessions. What else can you offer her? |
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| Author: | Mr. Fickle [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 3:47 am ] |
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Quote: Not enough info because you don't know what her relationship is like with her "ex". There's a chance she might want him back. Now if her mind is seesawing back and forth from him and you, you have to pull THE move. Teasing and flirting isn't going to do it. You're going against a guy who's already tapped her. You have to demonstrate that you'll give her "emotional support, physical support, sexual support, etc . . ." Otherwise, she'll always stick with the "knowns" in her life. She's already had all of these things with the ex. With you, all of her NEEDS are up in the air. So far, she knows she can count on you for flirt sessions. What else can you offer her?
who gives a fuck about her personal life here. we are worried about mason's personal life and no one elses. personally i wouldn't have even acknowledged the fact she was crying in the hallway, fuck that. go in to class act like everythings great go talk to her keep it light funny blah blah and then if she is still acting like a royal bitch just say something like; "I feel like your being________and so im going _______ but feel free to come socialize when you are feeling _____"
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| Author: | Mr. Fickle [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 3:49 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Not enough info because you don't know what her relationship is like with her "ex". There's a chance she might want him back. Now if her mind is seesawing back and forth from him and you, you have to pull THE move. Teasing and flirting isn't going to do it. You're going against a guy who's already tapped her. You have to demonstrate that you'll give her "emotional support, physical support, sexual support, etc . . ." Otherwise, she'll always stick with the "knowns" in her life. She's already had all of these things with the ex. With you, all of her NEEDS are up in the air. So far, she knows she can count on you for flirt sessions. What else can you offer her?
- thats extremely good advice right therego in to class act like everythings great go talk to her keep it light funny blah blah and then if she is still acting like a royal bitch just say something like; "I feel like your being________and so im going _______ but feel free to come socialize when you are feeling _____" |
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| Author: | Mr. Fickle [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 3:52 am ] |
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im a lil drunk ignore the first post quoting kasabi the second one is the response I wanted, I couldnt delete it for some reason |
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| Author: | mason [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 3:52 am ] |
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Yea I know for a fact he had sex with her... I know she would have sex with me me, because we were actually going to have sex in the locker room if someone wouldn't have came in. She has sort've opened up to me emotionally. I'm thinkin maybe on monday I could just go up to her, hug her and tell her I saw crying, ask her if shes doing okay... If she will respond to me then I'll try to get further into comfort through getting her to talk about whatever emotional event was bothering her... If shes unresponsive at best, forget her... I've got my stable kinda packed at the moment. It seems as if she deep down wants to interact with me, but shes having to tell herself not to.... |
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| Author: | Mr. Fickle [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 3:56 am ] |
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pm me with how it all works out im very interesetd to see how this works out because I can relate to sitituations like this, thanks. |
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| Author: | kasabi [ Sun Nov 23, 2008 4:10 am ] |
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No no . . . mrfickle is right about not acknowledging the other guy. That is the information you KEEP to yourself. You use that information to play your game. Don't pull any of this freaky locker room crap. Man up and go, "Hey, how about a dinner and a movie at my place?" Done. Think about what she is seesawing in her mind. Sorry I wrote up that list in random order. She's not going to go one way or another because you might be a better "therapist" than her ex. Not sure if you've studied psychology but you have to work up the pyramid of "needs". After you tap her sexually, she will give in and trust you more emotionally. This is when you can be a cuddly bear to her if you want to. Right now, you have to keep this sexual tension going, be confident, and swing for the fences. Also . . . the "royal bitch" comment is something you might try to "open up" up a bitch. You've already escalated this to the next level. You've already made lots of progress. No more "light, flirty, ha ha ha . . . crap" from now on. Now it's, "Hey, I'm heading to ____ club, you want to go?", "Hey, I'm renting ______. Come over, it'll be fun." Quote: It seems as if she deep down wants to interact with me, but shes having to tell herself not to...
This is one way to look at it . . .Another way to look at it is that she really, really wants to interact with you but you haven't yet offered her fun, safe, exciting, private means to interact with you yet. She's wants to tell herself that she "WANTS TO". Just give her the reasons to say, "YES". |
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