In a complicated Situation... BACKGROUND STORY!
I meet a few girls. Makes friends with them, but games the HB. After a month of hanging out and such, HB comes to house, Lots of Kino, she leans over, I kiss her (no resistance), fooled around a bit after that, later she tells me she met this guy and really digs him (ie: Me) but she isn't over her ex. Later she says she want to just "continue like before" (unforetunately I misinterpreted what she meant, lol) Also she has this really dumb 3 month rule- needs to get to know someone for 3 months as a friend first before going out with them...
ANYWAY:
Girl writes:
"BLABLA (stuff about her hurting my feelings- she thinks she did, no idea where that came from, i tell her she didn't)
Anyway, Im glad I didnt say anything to upset you then.
The situation from my point of view? I dont know how to read your mind, but here's what Im thinking: I see you as a guy friend that may or may not become something more in the future. I want to get to know you better as a friend. And then by January 5th, (after approx. 3 months of knowing you), I'll decide on if I still see you as a friend, and see how you feel about me. Because who knows, by that time, everything might've changed due to us getting to know each other better.
Now, define for me what YOU think.
"MY QUESTION is:
How should I respond, if at all? Should I kick her in the head/give her a good freezeout? She assumes herself to be in an upper position in the message (ie: I'll see what I feel THEN see how you feel, balbal) so should I give her a C/F response that brings the power position back to me? Other suggestions?
INPUT PLEASE
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