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| Author: | B_red [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 6:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | on a wing and a prayer |
I know I need alot of work but whatever I winged and in worst case scenario I'll learn something right? Sorry in advance for the play by play but I feel if I could analyze a situation it would help out the most. So I see this girl that is in my class at this party, we've never talked before but I'm almost sure she recognized me. I waited/avoided her not in an obvious way or anything close to that but in a very subtle way. Later on she's hanging out in a small room/make shift mini bar. I finally go in with a friend to mix a drink, end up right next to her. She turns around and I'm like "hey your from my class I didn't know you were here" Unfortunately then I introduced myself without a hand shake or any physical contact. So from there we start talking about class, she mentioned two of her "guy friends" in that class by complimenting one but saying that she really doesn't know either of them. Then her friend comes in walks right in front of me back turned and all and she introduces me to her friend. Then we shake hands, with the left hand and I'm like "what the heck is the left hand shake" she laughs says she's sorry and then I'm like "don't worry about it" we continue conversation for a few seconds and I leave, out of stupid fear of not having anything to talk about. (thats one of my biggest fears/problems) So alittle later go back to same room and its only her and another guy, who I'm pretty sure wasn't a threat. She starts talking to me again, and tells me some story about something I lean back and I think she leans in alittle. But then as I'm trying to tell my story about the same topic my cockblocking friends decide to show up and we loose touch. I'm not sure if the door is still open even though in school the next day as I walked past her she asked me if we had class. Prior to the party nothing would have been said. So I got a few very newbie questions... -When girl introduces you to her friend that's defiantly a good thing right? Does it show interest? -"what the heck is the left hand shake" was that a neg, I think/hope? -I took her telling me about her "guy friends" as something along the lines of don't be threated by them. Do you think that is correct? -Do you think shes was interested if so how can you tell? |
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| Author: | BIGRED [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 9:13 am ] |
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1. It could go either way with her introducing you to her friend. Maybe it was an ioi but in all reality she was probly just being polite. 2. Yes this was a well used neg but you want to neg the target not the friend. 3.Yes she ment "her guy friends" and no dont be threatend by them or anyone. 4.I dont think you did anything near enough to build actual attraction besides maybe phisical but we do goes way beyond that. Now, fearing that you will run out of conversation is nothing to fear. Go through the forum and make a gameplan of routines and convo. Be sure to add DHV stories. I f you must wrote them out and bring a cheat sheet out with you. Now if you want any chance at this girl you need to act quickly and establish contact. |
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| Author: | NonStopReaper [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 12:22 pm ] |
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Quote: B_red
-she intro her friend to you because she didnt want to be rude to you or ignore her friend at the same time. Yes its a good thing cause then if she wasnt intrested she could of just told you "hey i gotta go" and use her friend as a getawaySo I got a few very newbie questions... -When girl introduces you to her friend that's defiantly a good thing right? Does it show interest? -"what the heck is the left hand shake" was that a neg, I think/hope? -I took her telling me about her "guy friends" as something along the lines of don't be threated by them. Do you think that is correct? -Do you think shes was interested if so how can you tell? -sorta like a neg but it was towards her friend. it just shows that you can be humorous. - when she mention her guy friend it what just exactly as you said. - she is intrested since after the party she talk with you now. if she didnt want anything to do with you she would of ejected out of the convo and not initiate confversation after the party. Start gaming her now before she starts thinking you are not intrested in her. |
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