Great, thx for the answer. Bragging was what i was afraid of, but as long as people don't consider me an AFC who doesn't get the girls he approaches i am fine
But i guess they will think of me being social as you mention.
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| Author: | Sporally [ Mon Nov 17, 2008 5:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Tagging K-closes on Facebook |
So there are pretty much evidence material of me K-closing a girl out on Facebook from my last night out. I've tagged myself in an album made by a friend of mine. However i am unsure if it all is a good thing. Girls visiting my profile and going through all my tagging will... 1) (if i don't tag myself K-closing) ... think i'm an AFC talking to lots of girls but never get them. 2) (if i do tag my K-closes) ... seem like a player. 3) (if i do tag my K-closes) ... seem like a guy who do get girls but can't hold onto them in a relationship since i haven't stated any as my girlfriend and they can see me K-close girls week after week. 4) (if i don't tag myself in any sets) ... seem like an AFC who never opens any sets at all. Which of the 4 do you guys consider best? Maybe you could set up a list of what you think is the best, next best, third best and worst thing to do. Thx in advance. |
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| Author: | Lentouri [ Mon Nov 17, 2008 6:04 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Tagging K-closes on Facebook |
I would personally consider tagging yourself K-Closing is akin to bragging. A rich man doesn't need to tell you he is rich, remember. If anyone thinks a lack of photographic evidence of you K-Closing on Facebook means you never get with anyone, then they are an idiot, and will probably think you never have sex either because you haven't tagged yourself doing so. Tag yourself having in a good time with lots of sets though, it implies you are a sociable guy, have lots of friends, and are comfortable around good looking woman, without making you look like a player, or a show-off. |
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| Author: | Sporally [ Mon Nov 17, 2008 11:16 pm ] |
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Great, thx for the answer. Bragging was what i was afraid of, but as long as people don't consider me an AFC who doesn't get the girls he approaches i am fine But i guess they will think of me being social as you mention.
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| Author: | Plethora [ Mon Nov 17, 2008 11:33 pm ] |
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Don't tag pictures of kissing girls, that is so cheesy and try-hard. Tag a lot of pictures with you surrounded by girls or even as far as them kissing you on the cheek. This is much more subtle and will stimulate preselection/jealousy for girls who look at your profile. I just got a digital camera and during Christmas I am going to get as many photos with hot club girls as possible. |
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| Author: | anutharound [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 1:05 am ] |
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I agree with the other posters tagging would just come off as cocky. It's also a fallacious assumption to assume that everyone will think you are a loser just because you didn't tag some photos. |
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| Author: | RHVickrz [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 1:57 am ] |
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dont tag yourself kissing the girl it will make you look like a douche. if anyone saw your page and didnt see you kissing any girls and thought that you never got with anyone they would be idiots. thikn about it, when you see someones page do ou think that since there arnt any picturres of them k-closing that they dont kiss girls... |
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| Author: | Sporally [ Tue Nov 18, 2008 6:15 pm ] |
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OK, everyone seems to agree so i am happy about the situation  Another question talking about Facebook. I guess i know the answer, but just wanted to be 100% sure that you would agree with me. I K-closed this girl on saturday and i was wondering if it was a good idea to add her to my friend list already. I have her phone number, but i once (with a woman earlier) had an idea that if i added her to my friend list, there was a bigger chance i would end in the friend zone - yes yes, i know this isn't the one thing that leaves me in the friend zone, but if that is a big worry for you and you want to make sure to stay as far from the friend zone as possible (and maybe even begin a relationship with her) do you add her to your friend list on Facebook? Maybe some DHV pictures will be benificial, but i want to be 100% sure before i do it. |
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| Author: | anutharound [ Wed Nov 19, 2008 3:55 am ] |
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ok man, your mindset currently has a problem. You can get out of this though. Just from what you are saying I can tell that you think that women are likely to flake on you. It doesn't matter how many tips and tricks the guys on here give you if your mindset is that all women are going to flake on you. To a certain extent your thoughts control reality. If you think omg omg shes going to flake on me then it makes it very likely she will. If you instead are optimistic and think that shes guaranteed to show up then she probably will. I know you have alot more hope and faith in yourself then you are giving yourself credit for. Let yourself be the man you are meant to be. Imagine the entire process of getting a girl out as if you were successful see every little step towards getting the number and going on the date. As far as facebook goes it matters very little really. There are no perfect status messages, there are no perfect dhvs, and as far as I'm concerned the best way to make your facebook amazing is to have an amazing life in life outside of facebook. Above all I believe in you and I really think that you have the potential to get the most amazing woman ever, but you make the choice of whether to run at that opportunity. Sure there will be little setbacks every now and then, but you live you learn. |
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| Author: | Dragula [ Wed Nov 19, 2008 12:53 pm ] |
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Quote: Don't tag pictures of kissing girls, that is so cheesy and try-hard.
i have loads pics of me with girls surrounding meTag a lot of pictures with you surrounded by girls or even as far as them kissing you on the cheek. This is much more subtle and will stimulate preselection/jealousy for girls who look at your profile. I just got a digital camera and during Christmas I am going to get as many photos with hot club girls as possible. but girls think im a playyer , so i got rid and maybe just 1/2 good ones up there, then now things aree better for me dont forget the interestinf pics of u doing rock climbing etc , ur hobbies- DHV's |
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| Author: | Lentouri [ Wed Nov 19, 2008 2:04 pm ] |
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I K-closed this girl on saturday and i was wondering if it was a good idea to add her to my friend list already. I have her phone number, but i once (with a woman earlier) had an idea that if i added her to my friend list, there was a bigger chance i would end in the friend zone - yes yes, i know this isn't the one thing that leaves me in the friend zone, but if that is a big worry for you and you want to make sure to stay as far from the friend zone as possible (and maybe even begin a relationship with her) do you add her to your friend list on Facebook?
I wouldn't add her yet.If you have her number, why would you need to add her? You're not paranoid of losing her, are you? You can add her in your own time, after you've met up once or twice. No need to rush things. |
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| Author: | Sporally [ Thu Nov 20, 2008 8:02 pm ] |
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@ anutharound It's more like i want to know what is the better in every situation. I know these small things probably won't decide what will happen, but in the long run it will get me a significant lead i think. @ PEBBLE I could easily be afraid of this, but yes, then i need pics of other things - no doubt that is important, so does every PUA say aswell. @ Lentouri No, not paranoid of losing her, but as mentioned above i want to get the best out of every situation possible. I can surely live with losing her, but if possible i would be very happy to see my PUA skills working again. |
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