I'm talking to this girl and I want to say something like: You seem to have a lot of openess about you. I bet you really wear your heart on your sleeve.

Would it be wrong to say you wear your heart on your sleeve?

I'm thinking of it in the context of nlp. you're tell her things about herself that brings her closer to wanting to have sex with you. Like "O, I bet you love the feeling of giving to someone"

Or better yet, would it be better to say: "You seem to have a real openess about you, I bet you really love giving yourself to others."

I feel a little evil saying that lol. I wonder if she'll see what I'm trying to do in that sentance because "giving youself to others" it is kind of blanctant.

I know it's true though because she said: "i lived there [Africa] for a month the past 2 summers. my heart is in africa. helping people is my greatest joy. besides singing."


I think the heart on the sleeve thing will either be balsy and really good or insulting and hurtfull.

thanks in advance.