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| Author: | KPizzle [ Wed Nov 12, 2008 6:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Once i've opened |
right ok so the opening is fine, i've got that bit down but how do i then keep a conversation flowing and wat should i chat about |
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| Author: | xeroxed88 [ Wed Nov 12, 2008 7:17 pm ] |
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Just bounce back on what she has said to you. When I'm gaming, I pick out the keywords she has said, and use them in my questions. Basically, each conversation should just bounce off the last one. Or if she's said something that's familiar to me, I will DHV and talk about what I have done. I used to be worried by this but I find it happens quite naturally. |
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| Author: | hansolo86 [ Thu Nov 13, 2008 12:48 pm ] |
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Start talking about her, then after you get what kind of person she is, what she likes to do and so on, you just talk about it. Be interesting and natural. Use DHV-stories and funny stories, you higher your preselection value if you subtly tell her about your rich social life with guys and girls! =) Good luck! |
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| Author: | Atlas1 [ Thu Nov 13, 2008 2:06 pm ] |
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I'll give you a bit of a field report from last night, I walk into a resteraunt with one of my friends...possibly the WORST wing a guy could have! Hes an ogre that does real life role play and crap like that...on the other hand next to him I look like the coolest guy in the world XD. Quote: Hostess: How many?
Target has now been successfully opened. Where to go from here now? Well a few options ran through my head. David D in this scenario would probably call her over and comment on the fact that she hasn't been back and chastise her for it a bit. Style/Jefferies would probably go into palm reading or some other routine with her. Neither is really my style...this is a key point you need to find what fits YOU! Otherwise it looks fakeMy friend: 2 Me: Unless....you would like to join us. 3 please. You can even use your employee discount to buy us food! Her: Haha...well I am starving. Here I'll sit you right next to me so I can steal off your plate Me: Oh..so *Thats* the reason you want to keep me close We ordered mozzerlla sticks, I called her over to offer her one, handed it to her, she went to grab it and I would not let it go. She initiated kino at this point...and it was over. At this point I had her =). Eventually I gave her the food and she sat down with us and was talking for a while. I kept busting on her the whole time. Next: best thing in the world that could have happened...I AMOGed her manager. Her manager walks up and starts chastising her in front of us! This next portion got me a number close REALLY easily Quote:
Manager: <Target's name> You are supposed to be working! Not sitting down with your friends.
I honestly coulda kissed that manager....but I did the hostess instead <Target>: *Stammers*..They are customers... Manager: So you are just sitting down with customers? Me: Thats right...she is. We had an issue and she sat down to talk to us. Something wrong with that? Manager: Well its pretty unprofessional...<target's name> We need to have a talk about your status here *starts to walk away* Me: No I think its pretty personable and shes doing a good job. Whats your name? Manager: *gives business card* Me: Thank you. If she so much as has a change in schedule due to this incident, I will call corporate and tell them why. You disciplined an employee for doing their job IN FRONT of a customer? Are you kidding? Manger: *stammers: Me: Apologize to her now... Manager: <targets name>' Sorry to interrupts *sulks off* Now what was the point of me writing all that? The main idea is: its not really what you say thats important...as how you said it. I woulda been fine without that dude walking over...teasing her with the mozzarella stick would probably have been enough for a number close. Hell it let me shift her frame from "I'm bored at work to" "Hey this is fun!" |
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