Though a friend i've found a 9 on Facebook who i had some contact with 2 years ago though a former female friend. When i added her on Facebook i wrote to her asking in she remembered me and she did.
She is a 9 or something, but i guess she is lacking confidence in a way. She probably has 1000 approaches like any other girl with her looks, but she isn't really that smart, which i think she lacks confidence because of. I did a neg, but i'm not sure it was a good thing - just trying to stand out in the crowd. But she replied to my first two mails only although i believe my second message was better than other AFCs saying "So, how you've been?" BTW: I met her around a time when her boyfriend had dumped her for not sleeping with him, and her, our common friend and i when to the town and try to see if it could help her. She, without a doubt, was so happy for my comforting that she almost hit on me - i tried to be genuin and not exploit it.
Here's the messages translated:
Me
Hi Heidi
A little memory check if you remember me.
Clue: Invited you over for {prepared} pizza
)Stay cozy [danish expression used from time to time]
Heidi
Hehe yes i do remember ;p
Thank you for last time? (: [using question marks everywhere]
Me
Yes, you too
)I most take my hat off for you [i believe you use that expression aswell, like being respectful] since it is the fewest people who can handle a night out the very same day their boyfriend/girlfriend [in danish we have a common word for both] leaves them. I don't hope it backfired to go partying rather than staying home, but i've always thought it to be better to get out among other people in such a situation rather than being home alone with a friend...
Heidi
hehe well is it that long ago? thanks a lot
how are you doing?Me - doing negs and trying other topics than AFC "How are you doing?"
Yes, everything is great here (as people always say) [in Denmark we never say anything differently or else we will be looked down upon]
) Well, there isn't much to complain about except a sports injury that might be so serious that i'm sport disabled but let's see what the doctor has to say about it when i go there for a check. Besides eveything is great ) [was this a bad move?]I see you are now in a band/chorus [she was a great singer] - congratulations on that. You were very sad when i last met you so i never heard you sing but Mette [our common friend who i was in love with when i was an AFC] has said several times you are great so i guess you'd earned it... On the other side, you haven't proven anything for me
Hehe. Are you doing well with the band?But take good care of Mette, i don't count of being notified that something happened to her whilst you were around
[showing careness for my friends and also former friends]So what happened here? Reading it over several times i'm not that surpriced she didn't write back, but...:
1) What should i have done differently?
2) How do i continue from here? I know i probably come out as an AFC if i write another message to her, but i would rather do that than not doing anything