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Author:  now_here [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 2:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Asking girl what to on next date?
Hey

I met a girl a week ago. We have already done Day2 date. After the date the girl asked me if we should meet again etc... So now I'm thinking of sending her an sms asking her if she got suggestions for what to do on our next date. Is it AFC to ask a girl for what to do on a date? Maybe the girl want a man to decide what to do....

any suggestions?
Author:  edu [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 2:51 pm ]
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Definitely don't ask her that. I'm a noob as well, but i usually decide what to do and inform the lady. Besides you went out with her twice already, just give her a call and plan the next date. Most girls like the guy to be on charge ...
Author:  NeVasPlus [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 3:58 pm ]
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totally AFC-behaviour. you have to take the lead- no question.

gotta read this article to realize what women really like about men:

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Author:  now_here [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 4:26 pm ]
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I've already sent the message. I wrote that I was planning next date, go out and eat or something else.. And then asked if she had some suggestions..

bad?
Author:  Matthew Triton [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 4:34 pm ]
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Hey

I met a girl a week ago. We have already done Day2 date. After the date the girl asked me if we should meet again etc... So now I'm thinking of sending her an sms asking her if she got suggestions for what to do on our next date. Is it AFC to ask a girl for what to do on a date? Maybe the girl want a man to decide what to do....

any suggestions?
Ya, it kind of is. She expects YOU to be the Alpha male.. and lead her. You know what I do? I don't plan anything.. or if I do.. I tell her.. our next date will be a surprise. THAT WAY, it is always on her mind.. what could it be?

You can text her HINTS about it.. once in a while too.. to keep you on her mind.
Author:  rigoberto [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 4:35 pm ]
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No disrespect man, but I'd have to say not good. I think you've communicated that you're really thinking hard about doing something that will impress her, couldn't think about anything other than getting something to eat, and then told her that you couldn't think of any specific time, place, or thing, so if she wants to have a good time with you she'd better suggest something. Again, not to sound insulting, but that doesn't sound like the greatest invitation...

Based on what you've been able to gauge from her from the times you've seen/talked to her, you should have built up a decent idea of something she might enjoy doing that you could have invited her to. If you couldn't think of something, I'd have said that you're going to be free on such-and-such date and you should get together for a drink. Like the guys above are saying, you want to make it sound like you always have interesting things going on in your life, and you are inviting her to be a part of that.
Author:  Reo [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 4:52 pm ]
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Be careful not sure what you hope to accomplish by taking her out on dates you better be getting the results you want by doing so and I hope your not paying for her on the date if you haven't got any action from her

P.S You dont need to go out someplace everytime just invite her over to your house she should want to spend time with you.
Author:  V1V [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 5:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Asking girl what to on next date?
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Hey

I met a girl a week ago. We have already done Day2 date. After the date the girl asked me if we should meet again etc... So now I'm thinking of sending her an sms asking her if she got suggestions for what to do on our next date. Is it AFC to ask a girl for what to do on a date? Maybe the girl want a man to decide what to do....

any suggestions?
YOU take the lead. tell her what youll be doing. ask her to come along. ice skating. if shes bad - even better mre kino.
V1V :twisted:
Author:  Letangly [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 6:15 pm ]
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freely thinking about it
I ran into a problem like yours, but I decided to say fuck her. I have a vision of how things will go and its going to follow my vision, she is just a lucky broad thats commin along for the ride
Author:  now_here [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 11:00 pm ]
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I've just got a message back from her. She didn't mind that sms. She said she wants me to surprise her... So I must think of somehting :idea:

She is a MILF (nurse)
Author:  now_here [ Tue Oct 28, 2008 11:09 pm ]
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Be careful not sure what you hope to accomplish by taking her out on dates you better be getting the results you want by doing so and I hope your not paying for her on the date if you haven't got any action from her

P.S You dont need to go out someplace everytime just invite her over to your house she should want to spend time with you.
I like the idea of inviting her home. It's much cheaper than going to a restaurant. But I suppose that is too early? We have only done Day2 and if she gets here it can escalate into sex. Worried that it will be a fools mate (she run away, complaining I'm escalating too fast). OMG I want to have sleep with her, but I want to play it right - so I can sleep with her more than once
Author:  Reo [ Wed Oct 29, 2008 12:50 am ]
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I like the idea of inviting her home. It's much cheaper than going to a restaurant. But I suppose that is too early? We have only done Day2 and if she gets here it can escalate into sex. Worried that it will be a fools mate (she run away, complaining I'm escalating too fast). OMG I want to have sleep with her, but I want to play it right - so I can sleep with her more than once
If anything you're moving to slow, she's not going to reject you. If she does then you'll know she was just playing you all along just to ge a free dinner out off.

Imagine this you go out again you try to make your move for kiss, then she stops you saying "wait I'm not ready we've got to go out a few more times" you say ok then you go on day 4, day 5, day 6 etc.
Then day 7 she tells you "Now_here i like you but I'm just not into you like that we can be friends"

how would you feel?? You'd be pissed off probably cuss her out be ready slap her.
And then you'll post on here how your fed up with women and they're all bitches yada yada yada

I'm going to help not have all the unnecessary acts of comtempt for women

So make your move next time you see her if she resist even a kiss she's playing you.
Author:  edu [ Wed Oct 29, 2008 5:05 pm ]
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I've just got a message back from her. She didn't mind that sms. She said she wants me to surprise her... So I must think of somehting :idea:

She is a MILF (nurse)
Exactly what she want is for you to lead her. She's telling you nicely to do so and you're lucky to have a second chance to do so. Think of something sweet and surprise her, i'm sure she'll be stoked once you show her you're in command ...
Author:  now_here [ Mon Nov 24, 2008 5:01 am ]
Post subject:  Just a quick update
I've been dating this girl for a month now. I've taken the advises learned in this thread. Hence I've always decided what we should do on our dates. Which make her ask me "what do you want to do at the next date?".

I suppose things are going well, she came to my place yesterday. We watched a movie together and made out on the sofa a few times. She has invited me home to her place in a few days. She has said she will make a special dish for me. :D
Author:  Slickback [ Mon Nov 24, 2008 7:07 am ]
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Take her Laser Tagging. It's random and fun. Plus friendship made in battle is unbreakable. This is that but on small scale. lol
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