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Author:  Grand [ Sun Oct 19, 2008 11:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Save me from my one-itis, its ruining my game!

shes a hb9, and we connect really well, i'm pretty smitten and i know shes looking for a long term relationship. we hooked up one night and i followed up with some basic game, i invited her to the gym and for a swim, and i havent had a chance to talk to her for about a week. not sure how to continue.

help me out here, i need to know what and what not to do to go from mutual interest to relationship.

Author:  PeteNana15 [ Mon Oct 20, 2008 4:18 am ]
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Well as of right now you are in a decent situation. The last thing you want right now is to fall into the friends zone. Nothing is worse than have a one-itis with a girl that you are in the friends zone with.

Just play it cool, keep running game (negs, dhv..etc.) and dont become too needy.

as far as getting into a relationship thats not really my forte.. so can anyone help him with this??

Author:  Grand [ Tue Oct 21, 2008 12:14 am ]
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thats what makes one itis so shitty, i can barely run game, i'm afraid a neg will go too far or something like that. its easy in the field because the outcome is experience either way but when you really want the girl its a different story.

thanks for the support tho - anyone else?

Author:  Plethora [ Tue Oct 21, 2008 12:49 am ]
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thats what makes one itis so shitty, i can barely run game, i'm afraid a neg will go too far or something like that. its easy in the field because the outcome is experience either way but when you really want the girl its a different story.
No, you can not think that way. If you are in the mindset that you are afraid to lose someone, the chances that you will are much higher. You two are in the rapport building zone, so it is OK to start complementing her and telling her what qualities you like about her. At this stage you have to stop worrying about what to say, and just try to enjoy the company.

Author:  Grand [ Tue Oct 21, 2008 1:37 am ]
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thats sort of what i've been doing, great to hear, thanks alot for the advice.

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