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Author:  xxxScudxxx [ Sun Oct 19, 2008 5:48 am ]
Post subject:  how would you handle this bf situation?

I know that I don't master any of the methods available, and shouldn't be trying things in the wild, but....

PUA: It may sound strange, but how can i make you love me?
HB8: (laughing)
PUA: Other guys would tell you stories, buy you things and say how pretty you are, but let's be honest, your beauty is average here.
HB8: thank you!! (ironically)
PUA: I don't know why, but I thought you deserve a good night with me!
HB8: (looks confused and thinking)
PUA: (wait)
HB8: Actualy, I have a BF
PUA: (blablabla) nice to meet you!

I think now that i shouldn't have waited for her to say nothing and should have tried to kiss her. After, i think i should have asked her to introduce me to the BF and make friends before leave the set.

have you guys any thoughts on that?

Author:  kloombrh [ Sun Oct 19, 2008 6:06 am ]
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how can you make her love you? what kind of question is that? that makes you come off as needy and insecure. another thing, why did you insult her by telling her that her beauty is average? you should have said that beauty is common, but a good personality is rare. also don't compare how you're different from other guys, just prove it through being yourself. it almost sounds like she made up the boyfriend because of your lackluster performance.

trust me, i'm no master PUA by any means. i want the two of us to grow by learning from our mistakes, which is why we come to this forum. but please, never do what you did with this HB ever again.

Author:  Jaybot [ Sun Oct 19, 2008 11:25 am ]
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the guy above nailed it, if she really had a bf she would have mentioned him earlier also if a girl says they have a bf just ignore it and carry on.

Author:  xxxScudxxx [ Sun Oct 19, 2008 6:42 pm ]
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@chenkins: please give any input you find valuable, you are right, it's why we are in this forum :)

as for why i did that ... there is a translation problem, "love" isn't the best word to translate what i said to the girl, but i haven't found a better word. I was testing wether a confident attitude can overcome a non-confident line.

i agree that i shouldn't have said that her beauty was average. thanks for pointing that mistake!! :)

@jay: it's what i did, but i felt too much an AFC doing that. i don't think a confident guy would do that.

cheers

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