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| Author: | Nigma [ Mon Oct 13, 2008 4:46 pm ] |
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I've notice that alot of the stuff on here is from the proseptive of a white or fairer skin person trying attract another white or fairer skinned target. With that said I was wondering how do you approached using pua skills like peacocking and openers when the girl thinks that your wierd because of the way you dress and your openers are wierder because they are not "Damn shorty can I holla at you" |
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| Author: | Jaybot [ Mon Oct 13, 2008 6:16 pm ] |
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You should check out keys to the VIP they have black guys, white guys, asian guys, basically players of all colour etc running successful game on all different types of women. I think humans are humans and so the concepts etc will work across the board. Also you should ask yourself do you really want women that think you are weird because you aren't one big stereotype. |
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| Author: | vitaminc [ Mon Oct 13, 2008 10:13 pm ] |
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learn the concepts, not the exact lines. try your own openers and see what works for the girls who you're interested in. the concepts and theory in pickup applies to all women, but the way you present them and the language you use will differ from culture to culture. so instead of turning away as an IOD, you might be able to get away with "bitch! watch out for my pimp hand!" (sorry any girl here, white or black, would laugh at me if i said "damn shorty can i holla at you" and most probably call me a cheesy hiphop video cliche, but thats because there's a BIG culture difference between us. no one here talks like that, and from what i've seen it's fairly common in the US, so there it might actually fly, as long as it suits you. not like that K-Fed fucker. what a douche. peacocking isnt about dressing like a white guy. its about dressing like yourself and not like anyone else. its about using items of clothing to be different and catch attention. you can even use it to convey a bit of your personality or interests. the point is to look different though, not weird. not unless you have game like Mystery. then you can rock up in a space suit at a victoria's secret show and get a f-close every 5 minutes. |
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| Author: | Plethora [ Tue Oct 14, 2008 8:50 am ] |
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Quote: You should check out keys to the VIP
Don't use Keys to the VIP as a learning method. All the guys (except for maybe a couple) that are successful on that show are successful because they have really strong inner game, confidence, and looks. It's entertainment, leave it at that.But in my experience black guys get more attention and in some cases attraction from women. Learn some witty responses for when she tries to place you in a stereotype. I have some black friends, and they do not act it at all. They're like a chocolate ice cream bar (or Oreo), white on the inside. They use forms of direct game and it seems to work for them. I'm not black so I can't really say too much... but from my experience those that are comfortable, confident, outgoing, and happy, do quite well. There probably isn't much of a difference with different skin color. If you are congruent on the outside with the person inside, then you shouldn't run into these issues. |
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| Author: | iOverflow [ Tue Oct 14, 2008 10:09 am ] |
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Stereotyping is common for all men and it's also different in different places, Asians are ASexual, Nerds are always the skinny ones with glasses and lots of acme ,White guys always have strong features and blonde wavy hair, White guys are much braver then Asians, Black guys are powerful and Fast...etc, Stereotyping can be easily destroyed once you get to know them better Go with the flow and do what you want. Besides, Maybe you can use the "weirdness" To express how extraordinary you are? and further your self image to them! |
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| Author: | Nigma [ Tue Oct 14, 2008 2:27 pm ] |
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thanks for all the advice, alot of it make sense. Quote: peacocking isnt about dressing like a white guy. its about dressing like yourself and not like anyone else. its about using items of clothing to be different and catch attention. you can even use it to convey a bit of your personality or interests. the point is to look different though, not weird. not unless you have game like Mystery. then you can rock up in a space suit at a victoria's secret show and get a f-close every 5 minutes. A was a friday away before dressing up like Mystery lol thanks for stopping me in advance
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| Author: | Plethora [ Tue Oct 14, 2008 8:14 pm ] |
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Mystery has this tribal theory. You want to look like you belong to a tribe that women want to join, or at least to visit. This means that dressing like every other Joe Shmo will not attract women. You can use stereotypes to your advantage and dress like a rapper, and a lot women will want to visit your tribe. I would suggest wearing a nice flashy suit with a cap pulled low, kinda like a Jay-Z or Usher style, and see how that goes for you. |
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