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Author:  Zizouthecasanova [ Tue Apr 03, 2007 12:18 am ]
Post subject:  My students flirt with me ... What do I have to do about it?
Hi, it's me again ... :D Because of the name of my topic, don't think I'm a bad guy, no! never! it's only that my girl students flirt with me, when they look at me, they smile and laugh in a sexy and shy way, continue looking at me constantly and last Monday 2 of them told me I'm cute, in fact I am handsome, hehehe, really ... and now I'm worried because some students when I have to review their notebooks they sometimes touch me ... touch my arm, even my hands ... that drives me crazy ... but I'm the teacher and they are the students. I repeat again, I'm not sick, I'm just a new seducer but not with my students only with girls about my age but this is a new worry for me ... Please help me with this case. Thanks for your attention. Ci vediamo! :wink:
Author:  Sim [ Tue Apr 03, 2007 12:20 am ]
Post subject:  hmmm
i think, the best idea is that next time wen some1 gives u a compliment say, "oh! mi gf says the same thing all the time"
Author:  Pudding [ Tue Apr 03, 2007 11:12 am ]
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I agree. I have a friend who was a teacher and had the same experiences with the students. One of them wrote him love letters. Best bet: work on another teacher and let the students see you with her.
Author:  Valence [ Tue Apr 03, 2007 4:22 pm ]
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I'm not sure what country you are in, but in the US, you would be asking for jail time.

I am sure the girls are just fishing for good grades as it is but you should not be receptive to their advances at all. Take a professional approach to it.

Are you trying to make them jealous? Do not work other girls in front of them. Do not refer to your girlfriend. These things are only going to get you in trouble.

Talk to them in the tone of a father to a daughter. Do not react in any way to their approaches. They will take the hint soon enough. There are plenty of other adults out there to play the game with.
Author:  popsticle [ Thu Apr 05, 2007 3:58 pm ]
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Quote:
I'm not sure what country you are in, but in the US, you would be asking for jail time.
I disagree, you could end up in jail for sexual intimidation if you react to it and agree to some action otherwise you're not at fault. Though in the US I heard you can end up in jail for kissing a girl. F***ed up, but anyway, if I were you I would let them know you're not available and like Valence said don't try to make them jealous as they will only find you more attractive.
Author:  Zizouthecasanova [ Sat Apr 07, 2007 11:59 am ]
Post subject:  Merci Beaucoup!
My Friends, I really thank to all of you, for taking the time to answer my questions ... Thank you very much. :D By the way, I have another question, last day I was stood talking to one of my students out of the classroom, and when she saw me, she passed by my side and pushed me, yeah, she really pushed me with her shoulders, I didn't expect that, but that happened, any tips? :wink:
Author:  Slipfinger [ Sat Apr 07, 2007 2:50 pm ]
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Do not encourage that behavior..in anyway :) my tip for you


Slip
Author:  evolver [ Mon Apr 09, 2007 3:52 am ]
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I assume that this is a college situation and not high school? Regardless, there is nothing wrong with a bit of flirting. If it is a college situation then there is no law against seeing one of your students but it may well be a policy of your college not to do it. Do you like your job? All I can say is you know what your boundaries are and don't let the influence of cute girls let you exceed these boundaries.

The ironic thing is if you were to say to one of your students, "we can never have more than teacher/student relationship" it will probably attract her even more (sexual tension).
Author:  Zizouthecasanova [ Wed Apr 11, 2007 1:10 am ]
Post subject:  Grazie!
One more time, thanks! :D This nice girl always smiles at me and I smile at her but don't get me wrong please! I don't know but this not only happens with this girl but also with younger girls, two of them said to me "Teacher, I love you!" if it was in a funny or direct way makes think about it ... I feel like my students feel attraction for me and I can realize that due to the way they treat me. I wanted to tell you this, thanks for listening to me. :wink:
Author:  Paetar [ Wed Apr 11, 2007 1:07 pm ]
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From eyes of a High Schooler:--:

Consider if they are making fun of you. This situation happened in my school a lot of times, girls make fun of their teachers by flirting and try to get better grades (and some fun too.). My advice is to stay cool, don't try to stop it so much, but also make a strong line she cannot cross over.

If she is really in love with you, do the same things written above. Strong and strict line. DO NOT try to intimidate her, 'cause she may start gossip. As a Roman would say, fama volat. It is quite normal for emotionally and hormonally unstable teenage girl to "fall in love" with her teacher. But serious problem if girl starts to try and seduce teacher. And %@#ß! problem if she successes.

Carpe diem, and beware.
Author:  Zizouthecasanova [ Sat Apr 28, 2007 2:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Thanks Paetar!
Well, here I am, this girl student continues seducing me! :oops: she touches me very often what I mean she wants to hug me so she puts her arms on me and I try to reject her but she insists and gives me other signals ... :roll:
Author:  hot-hustler [ Sat Jun 02, 2007 10:57 am ]
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lol damn! I'm never ever gonna be a teacher dude. Thats gotta suck to not be able to do nothin about it ( I'm assuming your talking about college lvl or higher....) as for advice, I have none. I just wanted to say that must really suck :wink:
Author:  Fasho [ Wed Aug 08, 2007 3:18 am ]
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omg are you an idiot! dont stop this! you are the luckiest guy ever! i would kill for hot girls to seduce me :(
Author:  HiddenUnder [ Wed Aug 08, 2007 3:32 pm ]
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I'm a TA at a university and I had the same issue, but maybe not as bad. But girls love TA's, well the cool ones.

I'm their age though, so it's a completely different story (I'm a student too). You know it's not for the grades because they continue even after the course term is over.

One time I was at a club, and one of the students was there (again we're both young) and she saw me. She was drinking of course, but she just flat said... "I want to fuck you so bbbbaaaadddd." Her friends were there and everything. That's not the bad part. Her boyfriend was at the club somewhere.

I love being TA. :D
Author:  Ido [ Wed Aug 08, 2007 5:47 pm ]
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I had my femal Russian Teacher in my sophmore year of college come on to me. I have to say it was a big turn on. Sure she was much older than me but it was exciting. I think I would have done something about it if she was a MILF. But mostly I ignored it. And it didn't help. It just got stronger and more pronounced.

Sometimes it's good to cut things off at the hip before they grow too much to control.
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