Well kino is a very big part of it, but I think it also has a lot to do with how you present yourself. Kino is so great because it does two things: makes her comfortable with your physical contact thus making it easier to obtain more, and acts as a SOI or statement of interest. For years I would kind of just hang around women and try to be cool, hoping they would notice and do something that would let me know they wanted more than a friendship. Sometimes it would work, but what I’ve since realized is that the women would only make a move on me because they were tired of waiting for me to do it first. Basically women are expecting you to lead them, it is your responsibility early on to let them know that you are not interested in a platonic friendship. If you do not say or do things, that make them think you desire them sexually (SOIs, kino included) early on, they assume you are just being friendly with them and they write you off. You must make it unquestionable clear early on that you are a sexual being that desires them…but not in a Afc or perverted way of course, but rather in a smooth Amog way. I think that Juggler Method would help you out quite a bit.