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| Author: | Tasty [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 2:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Composing 'game' one day and not the next? |
Am I the only one that does this? It could be because i'm only a couple weeks into this (and am going to purchase THE GAME book tomorrow). But have done 10-15 hours of research and reading on this forum, as well as google, and youtube videos. Anyway, A couple days ago I had the same classes I had today, and flirted with many. I was feeling 100% confident, as if I were the ****. I stuck my chest out (i'm HG8 minimum with medium build so its not hard to feel confident (HG:HOTGUY)) and negged girls randomly. Just felt GOOD, like I was on a roll. It seemed like every girl I hit on (maybe 3 or 4 HB7-8 and a 9) would respond in IOI's and felt GOOD. But today I felt like crap. I did not have as much confidence (maybe 60%?) and would say something to a girl but in the wrong way - or with a not so perfect response. This does show that girls LOVE 100% confidence and the guy having a positive aura. aka "Feeling and radiating GOOD" For instance, I thought to myself once or twice.. "... wow, I am really being an AFC right now" HOWEVER I did have a couple small (3-4 minute) conversations with a HB7 today that i've hardly talked to. I didn't neg or kino at all. One thing i'm disappointed about most is this girl i've been building up for the past couple interactions, I walked away from today. I asked a couple boring questions and couldnt think of ANYTHING so i just walked away to talk to a couple other people i knew I have a problem with KINO.... I almost never touch. Unless we are interacting, such as doing something with our hands together - i will touch her hand as much as possible Any other on here like this? |
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| Author: | scott89 [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 2:26 am ] |
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As i've said before i'm no MPUA and i'm ill etc etc but in my opinion everything is good in moderation and evertything is bad if taken excessively. If you don't feel on game then take a step back and compose yourself or just give yourself a break from pickup for a day and evaluate what has knocked you off balance. |
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| Author: | Milinko [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 2:27 am ] |
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reach in your pants.... you have a dick right...? remember that when you get to feeling low. should make you laugh and boost yourself up. one thing i know i cant seem to do, or as of yet. is draw on feelings i had previously. It's called SELF-esteem, or however the shits spelled. dont worry about it, but definetly if you go spitting shit and you have a bad day, just calibrate. first appearances aren't shit. lastly, i wouldnt suggest attempting everyday, make it natural for you each day vs, trying.. |
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| Author: | scott89 [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 2:29 am ] |
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What i forgot to mention is that in a small, controlled environment such as a school (which i'm assuming is your "scene") a one off demonstration of lower value that can be caused by you not feeling up to scratch will have a larger knock-on effect than if it were to happen in a larger social environment such as a busy bar on a Saturday night. Basically a step back to evaluate yourself may actually be the way forward 
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| Author: | Tasty [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 2:41 am ] |
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thanks much for the replies. the dick grab made me crack up. However I don't agree with you saying [guys] looks dont mean shit. Untrue, - yes - girl's are FAR less visually oriented when it comes to guys than we view females. HOWEVER, (like i've read from several mpua's) having good looks gets you through the door.. or will give you greater success in being 'noticed' Picture a group of guys... a bunch of 5-6 and 7's... so-so looking. Then some Abercrombie model in the midst of them, all tan and muscley, just OOZING with sexual appeal. Who will the HB8-10's keep their eye on first? I think I am very shallow though because I won't give a girl the time of day if she isnt at least "cute".. HB7 or higher, IMO. HB6 is in between 'cute' and 'ehhh' imo. edit: and I do know that mPUA's recommend talking to ALL females, whether it be the HB4 working at the SuperMarket or the HB8 walking on the steet |
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| Author: | Milinko [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 2:54 am ] |
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honestly, what you lack to mention, is the 5~8's (guys) were cleaned up.. that model bitch could roll up and if the 5~8's are intellectually rolling, that model will be doing the dick check.. not to mention. you think more along the lines of attraction being solely phsyical.. for men its like 80% of the reasoning. for women it's like 20%.. hence why you cant skip doing dhv shit, making sure your appropriate tone body language. that model could sloach, and mumble that hd (hot dude lol), 5 could roll up poise and confident, and has much higher chance of doing things.. as it is always, prizing/gaming is situational. |
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| Author: | Tasty [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 3:00 am ] |
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Quote: honestly, what you lack to mention, is the 5~8's (guys) were cleaned up.. that model bitch could roll up and if the 5~8's are intellectually rolling, that model will be doing the dick check..
I was So close to mentioning that but didn't. I realize that and was thinking more along the lines of...not to mention. you think more along the lines of attraction being solely phsyical.. for men its like 80% of the reasoning. for women it's like 20%.. hence why you cant skip doing dhv shit, making sure your appropriate tone body language. that model could sloach, and mumble that hd (hot dude lol), 5 could roll up poise and confident, and has much higher chance of doing things.. as it is always, prizing/gaming is situational. What if they are all about equally cocky/confident... very similar. But there is one.. or two.. or however many (minority) that look super "model-eque".. and we all know how models act. They always have confidence but most i've seen act pretty damn cocky and usually do well with women. But it is apparent that girls care FAR less about looks that guys do. I've seen (all of us!) HB8 or 9 with some guy that would rank a 4 or 5 in my book. But as you would expect - he has a great personality |
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| Author: | Milinko [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 3:08 am ] |
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i can say thanks for one thing, you just made me realize what all this is for. I want to be that HD 1 that takes everything outta context cause im 100% personality, im not ugly by far, i hold great posture, i worked at a call center (lol which is way better than any audio tape) and now my voice is a firmer, manly-er type. But yea, everything like i said is situational.. your good at what you do, model-eque can wear a dunce hat, while you open her horizons to you. i say open it all, shit, just for kicks, i'd walk up with a big friggin sausage, and pass it to him.. tell him he looks so cute. He'd make a great gay friend.. lol |
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| Author: | Tasty [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 4:45 am ] |
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Surely you know what peacocking is, right? Check out Mystery... his game in the field (in videos section kind of near top) on youtube is excellent. He dresses like a rockstar. Black cowboy hat, piercings, tons of jewelry, headphones, etc etc etc. Girls notice him. Then picture Mystery in the field, sarging, but wearing a white Polo and some khaki pants. ..... uh.. yeah, he blends in |
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| Author: | Milinko [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 5:23 am ] |
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im not here to argue, just provide another angle and <insert an opinion> |
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| Author: | scott89 [ Fri Oct 03, 2008 1:17 pm ] |
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Quote: thanks much for the replies. the dick grab made me crack up.
Still not true, i've had better success with girls over some guy who was considered a celebrity and probably better looking than me in a girls eyes, it's all about how you see yourself, if you see yourself as a 10 then girls will feed off it providing you have the game to back it up and don't come across as a complete dick like said celebrity.
However I don't agree with you saying [guys] looks dont mean shit. Untrue, - yes - girl's are FAR less visually oriented when it comes to guys than we view females. HOWEVER, (like i've read from several mpua's) having good looks gets you through the door.. or will give you greater success in being 'noticed' Picture a group of guys... a bunch of 5-6 and 7's... so-so looking. Then some Abercrombie model in the midst of them, all tan and muscley, just OOZING with sexual appeal. Who will the HB8-10's keep their eye on first? I think I am very shallow though because I won't give a girl the time of day if she isnt at least "cute".. HB7 or higher, IMO. HB6 is in between 'cute' and 'ehhh' imo. edit: and I do know that mPUA's recommend talking to ALL females, whether it be the HB4 working at the SuperMarket or the HB8 walking on the steet |
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