kino can be done in many ways...
i will only deal with two opposite types now
gentle kino:
this can be very subtle and could never be considered harassement... touching her shoulder, trying to hold her hand and if she doesn't want letting it go... (you're not imposing anything, you're just leading the way... if she wants to follow that's her decision) - so that is definetly not harassement.
aggresive kino:
also called the caveman technique, works only when she is very attracted to you and wants to fuck you but for some reason she has emotional blockages and gives you mixed signals... you have to be very careful with this... otherwise yes you could be sued for harrassement... this is only done when you know for certain she wants you... and don't over do it... look into her eyes and if you see that she says NO but in her eyes it's "i'm so horny for you, i'm not ready yet though" you can continue... but if you see a NO that is congruent with her eyes and bodylanguage than at all means STOP...
no kino:
you can seduce with no kino as well, esspecially when she kino-es you all the time... or when you are so relaxed that you don't care... but at some point you will have to kino to get things going...
the worst thing is not to try kino, not to kill the just friends barrier... not to let her know you want her...
that's the worst choice...
so choose first option for begineers, second for advanced, and third if you still want to be AFC
good luck!
