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| Author: | kledusmonroe [ Wed Oct 01, 2008 3:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | high(after) school isolation |
how would i ask a girl whom i am moderatley gaming, like i talk to her sometimes and last year we were really close, to hang out after school, i know shes a cheerleader and i am a wrestler so i might be able to use this to my advantage, yes? |
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| Author: | Mr. Fickle [ Wed Oct 01, 2008 3:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | ... |
in cooperate her into your life. hey im going to ....high value place.....come on.... Beta Male (nervously): “Can I please have the honor of taking you to lunch? It will be my treat. Where would you like to go?” Woman: “Thank you!” (Smiles.) “I’d like to have lunch at the El Supero Expensivo Ritzo. Let’s go!” They go to lunch, the woman views him as a nice guy and a good friend, and he never gets laid because she just isn’t attracted to him in that way. And by the way, even though men complain about money spent on women in exchange for which they get nothing, women don’t view this as them taking advantage of the guy. After all, if you were put up on a pedestal and had someone nervously asking you to grace them with your presence for lunch, wouldn’t you feel like you were giving them exactly what they wanted by doing them that favor? If a man has a secret agenda that the woman detects, then that comes across to her as creepy. Alpha Male (relaxed and in comfortable in his own skin): “I’m off to get some lunch at my favorite place, El Cheapo Restaurant.” (Then, playfully, almost like it’s an afterthought): “You’re a fun person, so come along with me.” Woman (giggling): “Blah blah” (It really doesn’t matter what the woman says, because as long as she feels comfortable around the guy, she will go with him.) Notice the frame that this second example sets. The man is in his own reality. He wants to get lunch and knows where he wants to get it. Because the woman has earned his attention, she can come along with him. He is the prize, not her—she’s fun, so she gets invited to come along. In the first example, the woman is clearly the prize, as the man is weakwilled (doesn’t have a place in mind to go eat), knows that his value is less than hers (so he comes across as nervous), and has to practically bribe her to talk to him. Note also how “so come along with me” is really a command. You see, an alpha male is not afraid to put his balls on the line and say things like that to people. Make sure, however, to soften such phrases by saying them playfully. You don’t want to come across as harsh or bossy. |
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