grab your balls and kiss her... period.
see what happens
if not, forget about her... spend time with someone that wants you too... why waste it with someone that's not interested in you?
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| Author: | crazy_surfer [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 7:56 am ] |
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Hi everyone! I need help with this one.. any comments are welcome. I have a group of friends at college (about 8 guys and 4 girls). We hang out at least once a week, at bars, clubs, parties and so on. There is this one girl though, that Im starting to get worried about, because i feel Im getting one-itis towards her. Besides knowing I shouldnt have one-itis, I've been wondering wether or not I should try something. She seems to give IOIs, but they are not so clear. She always take me for a dance when we are in a club, for instance. We've already had plenty of kino. She is extra nice to me, whenever we meet (hugs, smiles, looks). But everytime we are at a club or party and a good-looking guy starts talking to her, they end up making out. Last time she went to a party with me, she got drunk and really opened up to me, then, before i had a chance to do something, another guy came and all of a sudden she totally changed her focus towards the other guy, and he got her. I've been trying to make it clear to her that she shouldnt consider me as just friends. Last time we were in a bar and she said something about a guy being cute, I told her she should keep those kinds of comments to herself. She asked "aren't we friends only?", I said "we are friends, but I dont want to hear that kinda stuff". I think she got the message. I've played unavaible for a while, and it worked, she started to make efforts to get my attention, she even got a little upset when I overdid it. However, there are two problems to this aproach. First, she is pretty and kind-of-easy, a lot of guys hit on her and she ends up kissing someone. Second, I've been doing the unavaible thing for a while, it is starting to get old. I need a closure. However, I know I wont be able to continue being friends if I get dumped. Even if i get to kiss her, and she decides she doesn't want to go on seeing me afterwards, I wont be able to continue friends with her. (I'm very jealous). What do i do next? How can I be sure I wont get a LJBF? |
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| Author: | sorin [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 8:06 am ] |
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grab your balls and kiss her... period. see what happens if not, forget about her... spend time with someone that wants you too... why waste it with someone that's not interested in you? |
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| Author: | Plethora [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 8:20 am ] |
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The only thing you have to fear, is fear itself. She digs you, so go for it. |
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| Author: | sorin [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 8:25 am ] |
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plethora i like your post... great way to put words together 
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| Author: | Plethora [ Tue Sep 30, 2008 8:26 am ] |
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I try. |
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| Author: | crazy_surfer [ Wed Oct 01, 2008 2:48 am ] |
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thanks for the answers, they're really encouraging! Is it so clear she wants me, from what I told you? Should I just do it, out of the blue? or should I use some routine? any ideas? |
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| Author: | Plethora [ Wed Oct 01, 2008 3:29 am ] |
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If you haven't built her interest up at the moment then sure, use a routine. Otherwise I think a "come here" and kiss her would suffice. |
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| Author: | sorin [ Thu Oct 02, 2008 9:04 am ] |
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just make some confort first... hold her hand.... stay very close to her while talking to her... speak slowlier and on a lower tone so that she has to pay attention and relax to get your vibe... relax yourself first... and then look into her eyes and hug her... and then kiss her... just play with it till it happens... even if she turns you down on the first...second...third kiss... if you know how to be cool about it... she'll acept it on the fourth time cause they like to play too
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| Author: | sorin [ Thu Oct 02, 2008 9:15 am ] |
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oh and 1 more thing... even if she does turn you down, what the heck... at least you tried it and will stop thinking about WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPENED IF... which is certainly very bothering... the main quality of a man is that he takes action, regardless whether he will succeed or not... when women feel you are the kind of a man that takes action for what he wants and is direct about it... without using routines, manipulative tactics, etc... they will find that man even more attractive... THIS HAS BEEN FIELD TESTED A LOT BY ME! so take her out... have a drink with her... talk close to her... closer and closer ... and if she keeps you in the distance, grab her hand... caress it with confidence and caring... look deep into her eyes and... she will be yours... if not... at least you will know where you stand FOR REAL! BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND TO HER AND TAKE ACTION! NOW! go go go
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