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| Author: | The_Shadow [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 10:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Hot n Cold, Off n On, Confident, Pathetic. Help. |
I have been thinking about making a post looking for help regarding a couple of different aspects on this issue, but I've decided I'll just cover everything now. I'll keep everything condensed cause I know how awful it can be reading a lot. First of all, you should know I'm in high school, so the game is different for us. Ok, now, I'm no player. I'm just a friend. I make friends easy, and really make friends with girls. But thats all it is. Friendship is only so rewarding. I have the confidence to talk to essentially anyone and make friends, but then other times I lack it for other things. Grinding at clubs and dances is something I get very nervous about. How do I get over that? How do I stop making friends and start getting girls to like as more than that? Yeah I'm nice and friendly, but then when there's more people there, more alpha males, I become very nervous and shy. It's awful. How can I act unattainable, when what I really want is to be attained? This didn't cover half of what I'm worried about but it will do for now. You guys gotta help me out. Any help would be fantastic. |
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| Author: | mPUA Savior [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 10:56 pm ] |
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well if you'd like me to sum up everything about your problem i can if so message me and i will..... but i see that you are a nice guy/push over and have trouble getting sexual cause your baffled as how to do it, when the subject is brought up you probably get uneasy and when alpha's are around you freeze up and go into a shell cause your nervous, self conscious and easily embarrased the more people around the more people who can disagree with you and what you say therefore you'd get blown out/nervous/humiliated so you dont happen to say much at all. you create friends with girls by just being there a few conversations here and there and just befriending them, maybe homework help or anwser a quick question, lend a pencil....girls view you as a guy they can go to when they need help, and a nice guy over all who is sweet to talk too..... so a quick solution, stop being a push over and become alpha male..... and the only way to do that is the baby step system....small steps to achieve your goal...... like i said if you want me to go into furthehr detail then message me for more details but i got 50 math problems ot complete by tommrow so gotta get to them.....anyways i use to be in your shoes 100% probably 6 years ago back in middle school and early high school, but i have changed in a way that i could probably get any girl i wanted...confidence is key thats the trick of the trade.....something you seem to lack....but we'lll get you on the right track, ill message you sometime on aim and we'll talk any part i missed questions???? |
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