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| Author: | Korruptx [ Sat Sep 27, 2008 12:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Can't pull the damn trigger! Need help.. |
Last night it was my friends 18th, me and like 15 of my mates went clubbing and to cut a long story short, I ended up opening some sets and eventually finding a perfect pair of 'Best friends'. I could have got with both of them, I mean... I SHOULD have got with both of them. But you know what? I didnt know how to pull the trigger! They were both grinding on me at different points in the night, and I got one on her own and she was grabbing me all over. I didnt know what the fuck to say to close it though... I mean.. I litteraly was nose to nose with her and I just couldnt do it! Anyone got any help? Im so damn close... |
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| Author: | mPUA Savior [ Sat Sep 27, 2008 3:43 pm ] |
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at clubs girls lose inhibition so easily, they grind, make out, have fun...but they also know when to say no so most girls most girls that is go to the club just to have a good time there and not expecting to bring anyone back home.....so my point is these girls could of just been having a good time and when you asked for them to hang out after or whatever they may just say no no matter how willing and ready they seem im only telling you that to have you keep in mind.... but anyways one option is too put um on a crumb trail that leads back to your place...... if you came with a friend or not.. tell the girls or the one girl that you were going to go get something to eat, or go here or there after you leave the club and be like you should come ... .... if they say no well game over if they say yes, then thats one closer step to your place, work into conversation that you believe would work to get them or her back to your place..... you can even skip asking them to hang out after and just work into conversaton at the club that will have them coming back to your place... so for instance, talk bout something during conversatoin that you have back at your place and really sell it say you wanan show them and it wil take a second..... or if your talking you could say somehting like "well its just bout time for me to leave"...well i guess you can come over for a bit".......like it was her idea.....make sure to hold eye contact and have a confident attitude on your face though alpha male basicaly when you say it....... and hell this way they got two options yes or a no my opinion i prefer the well i guess you can come over but whatever way you want its up to you i only offered examples as to what you can do, the choice to use them is up too you.... |
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| Author: | Plethora [ Sat Sep 27, 2008 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Can't pull the damn trigger! Need help.. |
Quote: Last night it was my friends 18th, me and like 15 of my mates went clubbing and to cut a long story short, I ended up opening some sets and eventually finding a perfect pair of 'Best friends'. I could have got with both of them, I mean... I SHOULD have got with both of them. But you know what? I didnt know how to pull the trigger! They were both grinding on me at different points in the night, and I got one on her own and she was grabbing me all over. I didnt know what the fuck to say to close it though... I mean.. I litteraly was nose to nose with her and I just couldnt do it! Anyone got any help? Im so damn close...
Yea, you could have easily snagged a makeout. If a girl is that close to you and hold eye contact for three seconds or more, she wants to be kissed. Just go for it. Run a finger from her forehead down her cheek slowly, lean in and kiss her. But as the other guy mentioned, dance clubs are not great places for getting girls to bring home, unless you find a slut. Girls in dance clubs are in highly stimulated, low inhibition state (what pua's call high buying temperature). So any IOI's, anything that shows she is really attracted to you, will disappear as the night goes on. So gaming on the dance floor isn't really recommended, but if you got the moves and enjoy it a lot, then go for it.
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| Author: | mPUA Savior [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 4:56 pm ] |
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what i recommend before is a possbile scenaior to get her back to your place cause i took your message as that what you wanted... but if your just wanting to make out, and your already nose to nose, either A) go for it (but it is risky) B) look her in the eye and then down at her lips, and maybe tilt your head a bit (kind of like implying i want to kiss you) C) ask her "On a scale 1 - 10 how good a kisser are you?" or "How good a kisser are you?" and no matter what she says you CAN say "Lets find out" and then go for it all the optins i gave you are based on yoru facts of you were nose to nose and you were accurate in thinking she really wanted it but you too where just dumb founded as to what to do.... i recommened C) though and in a club with you type of situation its usually easy to pull off....A) is asking for a slap maybe and B) some girls are dumb and dont get the obvious hint C) in MY opinion is your best bet |
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