you have realized if it be good or not negging her thats a smart choice cause i know a lot of guys would do neg regardless....without thinking over the situation but remember when you get into conversation dont be afraid to talk say this or that...or you might just shoot yourself in the foot with not saying what you want and in turn then stumbling on what else you can say.....
so here is a simple way of telling how much or how little you need to c&f, tease and everything else....girls our rated on a scale
1 ugly 10 drop dead hot
most guys mess up this scale too much, say for instance a guy is a 6 he sees a 5, of course he thinks damn she is a 8.5, so he treats her like an 8.5, problem?
your damn right there is....
he is treating the 5 like a 8, well the 5 doesnt get much attention like the 8, isnt as pretty as the 8, and isnt as self absorbed as the 8......
there is a occasion where this is wrong the 5 thinks she is high and mighty and the 8 is just shy and doenst talk much therefore not really acting all stuck up...
anyways though
basically what im saying is the 8 has been praised and the 5 hasnt as much or none at all.....
so if this guy go's up to the 5 and treats her like the 8, hey! he can pull it off, but more times then not if he negs to much, c&f, and everythign else she may start to think wow he is an asshole, or bad about herself......
what this guy should do is focus more on a playful convesation, tease her on occasion, and really just focus on getting her comfortable around the conversation...
so what im saying is the scale 1 to 10 is a good tool to use
if she is a 1 id put a hold on the teasing quite a bit and if she is a 10 crank that shit up.....if she is a five you should try and find a happy medium good conversation with a few comments her and there.....
now what you need to do......is look at this girls pictures on myspace, and think what the hottest guys in your high school, college or wherever would view her as....im not saying your ugly so get someone elses opinion im saying judge her looks based on others perspective...
so that guy who is a 6 and thougth the girl was an 8.5,,,if he wuld of took the time for a second and though hmm what would other guys think he would come to find out maybe she would be a 6, or a 5 but eithe way atleast now he isnt gonna treat her like an 8 or 9 you knw...
that guy came to realize she is a true 8 or 9 so i dont have to game her like one instead i should ease off just a bit on the teasing.....
also this way of thinking helps you tremendously cause i bet that guy who is a 6 and thought that girl was a 8.5 may of been thinking omg she is out of my league, she would only go talk to guys who are 10s and when he went to talk to her might of blew himself out of the water,
so by having him realize she is only a 5 or 6 he can settle down knowing, her standards arent as high as he thought, and no he isnt gonna get shot down if he talks to her and that she isnt all high and mighty and no the 10s wouldnt really talk to her there busy hitting on the 8s, basiclaly this girl is in your league and just caues you think she is hot doesnt mean she all of a sudden is a 10 and you have no chance at all
so anyways think of this scale and how hot that girl REALLY is and then judge what you conversation should be like when talking, but no matter the number there is always gonna be teasing and playful conversaiton involved its just to what degree of teasing that the numbers indicate 1 being not so much 10 being hell of a lot,
so now that i have run my mouth forever i will come to sya
dont forget to act alpha around this girl and who gives a shit what they think bout you dont let your fear of what should i do and say control the situation if she doesnt like you for you why would you want to be with her
so in summary, judge her looks and then when you find her true number think of what amount of teasing and the type of teasing that would be best for conversation, view the area and the people around you and take that into consideration....so if your going to an art gallery dont be saying or cracking jokes but how bad art is....
and lastly act alpha, do and say what you want in accordance to the place your in, and what her true number is...
if you dont act alpha and tease on occasoin, seem fun and interesting, and just someone she would love to be around....
and you act instead like just a friend tagging along...what do you think you will be viewed as then.....maybe a friend???
so game her like you would any other girl, just keep in mind your in an art gallery, so make sure what your doing wont be viewed as rude and take in to account her real number and judge what the conversations should be like accordingly
any questoins??
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