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Author:  LONEWOLF177 [ Fri Sep 26, 2008 12:39 pm ]
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Hey Guys,
I was a this local bar last weekend and I picked up this girl. An HB8 with this phat ass. Anyway as I was finishing up talking to her after I got her number. One of her girlfriends came out of the blue and asked her "Did you just give him your #, He's not even cute". Now guys I know I had to say something so I said "Hey princess the way I see it your not hot enough to iron a nylon shirt but they still let YOU in here" Now the girl I gamed laughed and I made my exit with "nice metting you guys" and left. But was this the right thing to say? Could I have handeled it another way? Beacuse it could of easily went the other way and they both could have gotten offended?
Author:  hansolo86 [ Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:14 pm ]
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If your target laughed, naturally not awkward-laugh, then you're all good! Just don't overthink stuff like this, that's what AFC's do! =)
Author:  scott89 [ Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:42 pm ]
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Hehe, made me chuckle, i'm not sure whether or not it was the right thing to do, it quite possibly was, but the fact you threw that out so spontaneously can only be a good thing, bonus points for the target's laugh :lol:
Author:  metalmonkeys [ Fri Sep 26, 2008 4:19 pm ]
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Difficult to say buddy, when someone throws you off like that

My game is quite improvised, since I'm naturally pretty good at talking to people, and I'm good on the spot...but what you said was pretty good, actually. The thing about that sort of improvisation is that it's a skill that can ONLY be learnt by practice

Obviously a neg of some sort had to be made...

If your HB laughed, then that's a good thing...but be careful about offending her friends. If they don't like you, they might try to persuade her away from you, if she's fickle.
Author:  dronten [ Sun Sep 28, 2008 11:41 pm ]
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I think that the ultimate way to deal with a situation like that is to disarm without being insulting... the ultimate outcome is when both the target and her friends like you when you walk away.

I don't know if I would have dealt with the situation any better spontaneously, but now when I think about it a reply like "hey honey, don't be jealous, you can have your friend back soon" (said with a cocky/funny smile) would have been better... After saying that I would have said "nice meeting you and your impatient friend *wink to the friend*" and just walked off. If she would have made some kind of reply ("I'm not jealous, he's just not hot!") I would have perhaps have waved and smiled over my shoulder on my way out.

The MOST important thing in that kind of situation is not letting her put you down.. that part you passed. The second most important thing however is appearing as a fun, easy-going guy. In that area I think that perhaps you could have done better (depends a bit on your delivery, and if her friend was insulted or not). BUT it WAS a tough situation, and I think you deserve credit for not getting entirely blown out of frame. That could have easily happened to many of us (including me!), I think.

Remember: Her friend can't possibly KNOW if you are attractive or not unless she's seen you in action... Attraction is about personality and actions, not looks. That means that either she's lying (she's seen you in action and DO think you're hot.. she is afraid that you'll steal her friend et c) OR she doesn't know what the fuck she's talking about. So her "not cute" statement almost certainly means something different entirely. Just pick one interpretation and throw it in her face in a calm matter-of-fact way, like I did in my example :)
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