now i dont follow the pua, mystery method stuff so excuse me for not video tapoing and analysing my conversation lol....
shit what i do is ask opinion, build off what she says and have a fun conversatoin, with me being confident, held eye contact, teasing her a bit, and just being interesting... works just as well as the a1 a2 a3, push pull, kino and whatever other methods there are to use,
but anyways ill share with you one of my charts that i have made in order for you to understand why your doing wrong.....
first off you dont need to neg everyone, you dont need to push/pull everyone, stop or ill bitch slap you lol........
let me explain you siad the girl is shy so why are you negging her??
isnt a neg suppose to take a girl off of her unreachable area say for instance a 10 or a 9? she is shy i dont think she gets hit on much and even if she does, i highly doubt she responds much, basically if she is a 10 and shy then she is a 5 6 7 whatever you dont have to go about and neg her and all that
imagine if you were her and you were to shy to talk just not really social and you had a guy come up and neg you...how would you feel???
so anywyas here is my chart
10
9
8
7
6 opinion direct covert comedy
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5
4
3
2
1
now its a scale 10 to 1 and the line cuts it in half now i have got 3 man areas of approaching and talking to woman on this scale.....that is opinon, direct, and C&F or what i call covert comedy cause the way you approach you use humor but also talk in a way that is covert in her mind she doesnt realize your hitting on her
so for instance damn thats a big hand bag what you got in there a gun?
she thinks your just be funny and what not actually your using covert comedy
so anywyas the higher you go up that scale the more negs should be used cause of course hotter woman are praised more, direct openers should be forgetten the higher you go up and opinions should be used more to open the higher you go up, covert comedy is just about even all the way through out.....
now the lower you go on this scale the less negs should be used but on occasoin you can use C&F and now since were going lower on the scale is opens up everyting possible opener so you can use opinions, direct, or covert comedy, just have a normal conversation but still be somewhat playful and interesting, hold eye contact its all the same just dont tease her as much and feel you ave to display to er your an ALPHA MALE lol cause yeah you'll come off as an alpha asshole
so please do reframe from negging an excessive amount below the line and within circumstance like if the girl is really shy or extremly self conscious
also take into account true 10's are ones even the popular guys in your school would consider hot, so say your a 5 in looks and the girl you want is a 4 to most guys in school but you find her a 10, that doesn mean act as if she is one
do you think it be wise, to walk up to her and neg her to death?....i woudlnt recommend it, direct comment should be given like
excuse me! (kino on elbow, hold no more then 2 secs),,, but i couldnt help to feel i had to meet you (confident smile) whats your name?...and into conversation......that is a direct approach, now would it work with a 4 you damn well bet it would, would it work with a 10 i doubt it would...
so next time your sarging a girl first take into account is she shy, is she a true 10 is she a true 4 and then think of my chart
10
9
8
7
6 opinion direct covert comedy
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5
4
3
2
1
and once you have visualized my chart think for a minute what would be best in my approach to pick up this girl and should i use a neg, or should i just focus more on having a fun conversaiton with the occasion c&f comment........
well message back please, and let me know if i missed anything
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...but I should maybe look at some of them~