So the other day I was at an all time low for my psychological status. I figured that this community wasn't for me but a few select guys opened up my eyes. Everyone needs to realize that success isn't easy nor is it guaranteed.
I needed to go out and stop trying and start doing. Being a machine is unattractive. I used the knowledge that I had and went out to Summerslam in Kansas City featuring Buckcherry, Seether, Shinedown and many other bands. So my goal was to approach girls with out even thinking about approaching them. That night I was in a state of purity and was saying all the right things. There were over 10,000 people there...so I had to take advantage of the opportunity. I approached about 15 girls and my best one I will tell that story. By the way I went 14/15 on number closes, 2/3 were kiss closes, then I found one that I want to date. This is her story.
I was standing back watching Saving Abel and I saw these two girls (HB8/HB9) taking pictures of themselves. I approached and said "Hey everyone's gonna think you didn't meet anyone at this concert, so I better take some pictures with you" They laughed and said "alright!" So I took some pictures, doing different poses and expressions. I told them we needed a romantic one and they both kissed me on the cheeks and I did a
and they both laughed and said I should cheer up. I told them that I was always a happy guy and we had some small talk. Then I told them I wanted to do a test. I ran the best friends routine and it worked. The whole time I was partially ignoring the target, so I told her friend (HB8) if I could just spend some time talkin with her. I took her to get a drink then I ran The Cube, she was totally into me and she wound up staying with me for a bit. After I left her I went and opened some other sets then I found her again and said "I should really keep you on a leash because I almost lost you!" and she said she wouldn't leave me again and I pulled her close and said "Promise?" she promised then we kissed. She came back to the place with my friend where they were standing and Buckcherry was the last act and they started to play and i was holding her most of the time but it was too loud to talk. I resorted to typing on my phone to have our conversation (Plus this was used because I was getting nervous so I used this as a scapegoat so my voice wouldn't get weak). We started to grind and dance and make out a little and I typed down "What if they play crazy bitch, what are you going to do?" She typed "Oh you have no idea mister ; ) " the last song Buckcherry played was crazy bitch and I'll leave that part to your imagination.
After the concert we went to a few bars with our friends and she would back up at my friends house and we were laying on his bed making out and she went down on me and then when that was over she said, I would go further but I want this to be more than a one night stand. I said, I would never make you do that. It's something special that is shared between two people that care about each other. I care about you, but my emotions are running wild right now. She smiled and said that I was the nicest and cutest guy she had talked to.
The rest of the night wound up falling asleep cuddling. Tonight I have a date with her again and we are going to a few clubs. Guys I really want to show that it is possible for you to go from being completely down to having the feeling that you are back on top. As for now I am playing this as still an approach and not quite the serious stage. I will keep you updated on my progress. Peace easy everyone!