I gamed this hb9 2 nights ago. I met her at the bar and didnt exactly use a canned opener.. jus started chatting. i swiftly discovered english wasnt her first language.. and it was exactly a close 2nd either. Being an afc, I werent too interested as thought it'd be too hard with the language barrier.. so i left the bar to rejoin my mates for our drinking session. after drinks they wannid to go to a bar i didnt like so i joined some girl i knew (just a mate).
While chatting to this girl i noticed the HB looking over, kindof pleadingly. She did this many times, even when chatting to her friend. At the bar earlier, id found out it was her first night here and she'd come out with someone she met off her bus.. which may have explained her interest in an exit.
Anyway, after getting my friend to flirt with me a bit I went over as she was now on her own. It was hard talking to her as she was quiet and the language barrier sucked. I did most of the speaking. I took her to a quieter place in the club so we could hear better.. and I taught her thumb-wrestling. she sucked but enjoyed the kino. I suggested we go to another club where itd be busier and better to dance. She wasnt hesitant at all.
So, in the new club we hit the bar. She looked like she was expecting me to buy her a drink. i took no notice. i ran a few pschological tests on her (only 1 really working). we had some more kino (as conversation was flagging.. i resorted to fluffing as the same jokes and open-ended statements werent working with her.. she was german). we shared a high-five where she curled her fingers round mine rather than keeping flat. IOI right?! later on we held hands after some kino.. (as she didnt exactly look to let go). i took her hand on a few occasions and led her to different spots in the club. at one point we spoke about the wildest thing weve ever done. i thought id added up enoguh IOIs so I asked her if she wanted to kiss me and she said yein (which means yes and no in german). looking back maybe i shouldve kissed her then.. but we were at the bar.. and it felt weird. she wouldnt look at me in the eye long enough for me to indicate i was about to kiss her. i dunno.. jus wasnt as easy as it will have been with an english-speaking girl (im not usually sh*t at this bit).
anyway, this is dragging a bit. but soon after she seemed to go off me as the convo dried up. the banter was thin. (language barrier again). i asked if she would join me for a dance but she said she didnt like the music.. which i took as an IOD cuz she'd earlier said she'd dance later. there were other IODs I cant quite recall now.. jus remember things were going downhill. i wouldve indicated i was going to leave.. but she was in a club with no1 else that she knew.. and i felt quite guilty. so i said 'i think i might leave, dyou want to leave'.. she said okay. i walked her home and AFC-ly said 'nice meeting u' and kissed her on the cheek and a hug. (there was no IOIs on the walk home.. so i didnt fancy pushing it. also, cuz I'd earlier got her number and said id give her a snowboarding lesson 2days later [tomorrow]. i thought i may be able to start again then)
So yea. I'm not sure if i should text her about coming out for a drink tonight?? with something on if she still wants that boarding lesson tomorrow. She leaves in 3days.. and clearly i only want a f-close. any advice guys?
And if she is out tonight.. any tips on gaming through that f*cking language barrier??
Cheers
sorry for the long message.