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| Author: | Omega [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 9:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girls you already know |
So there are a few girls who I see everyonce in a while. My friends were friends with them in High School, but some how I was never friends with them, just aquaintances. Now that were all out of college and back home (or in the area) I see them at bars and I know I dont really need an opener for them. How do you start to build comfort and attraction with them? Especially when they already kind of know you. |
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| Author: | kata124 [ Fri Sep 19, 2008 12:08 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Girls you already know |
Quote: Now that were all out of college and back home (or in the area) I see them at bars and I know I don't really need an opener for them.
You still need an opener because you never really talked to them. Treat them as if you never saw them before. That helps to make you look alpha. If they mention that you were in the same High School then I would say that's an IOI. Just respond with "oh yeah, i remember when you insert neg here." This works like a charm. 
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| Author: | Omega [ Sat Sep 20, 2008 12:42 am ] |
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I know them better than that. I graduated with 100 people in my grade. Everyone knows everyone. I just never really spoke to these girls unless I was in a big group convo. The problem is talking to them 1on1. I could walk up to them and say "hey HB whats up?" and start a convo and it wouldnt be weird or them being like 'who is this?' They already feel comfortable with me around. My prob is that I dont know how to transfer from my opener to the next thing to say. I feel like I need to ask them a question and most of the time the question is generic and know thats bad. |
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| Author: | hansolo86 [ Sat Sep 20, 2008 10:08 am ] |
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You do like you always do, open, gain attraction and comfort, then you seduce! The problem with old friends and class mates is that you're in the dangerous "friend zone", and if you dont use kino enough, no matter how awesome you can talk and do PUA-routines, you will be a LJBF forever! |
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