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| Author: | Sheer Con [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 7:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | IOI?? "secrets" |
was having dinner with a girl. not sure if its as friends or w/e cause i failed to pick up on signs. anyway so during dinner she asks if I have any secrets. obviously everyone does so I said ya. and then she asked if anyone will ever know them. is this an attempt by her to build depper rapport with me? |
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| Author: | danieltx [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 7:39 pm ] |
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Figure out if y'all were on a date or out just as friends first. I find it a little hard to believe that you couldn't tell which it was. |
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| Author: | Sheer Con [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 7:49 pm ] |
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ya this was before a read the game and even tho I'm far from PUA, I'm not as completely and utterly hopeless as I was before. anyways.. id say its a pretty dumb move to ask her if we were out as friends or not. that would make her feel damn akward... |
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| Author: | ace_of_spades [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 8:04 pm ] |
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Yeah it would. Sharing secrets (properly done) is a good rapport builder. Without further insight though, it's impossible to tell what she was trying to do. It could've just been making conversation. If you like the girl - plough on, tease, kino escalate, escalate and escalate! Not all women fall into the target-pawn-pivot divide. Some are just really awesome friends. Before you do anything, make sure you know what you want. If you're indecisive, there will come a window of opportunity which you're likely to miss. You'll hesitate a second too long, the window will slam shut and you'll get LJBFd. Any more questions - PM. |
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