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| Author: | Kasdrup [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 2:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | "have to think about hanging out" = No? |
Last Saturday I met this blond HB 8 in the club. We danced together and made out. Moreover, I moved her around in the club a little bit to create more comfort. I also qualified her with a big hoop. However, I did some mistakes though like pulling her hair and she got pist and told me angry to stop. Moreover, I tried to kiss her ear in the club which kinda fucked up and she left me at the club. Before that I kissed her one time and I pulled back. She wanted more and after about 10 minutes of dancing close together I gave her more. However, I think I gave her a little to much and she left me. I got her number though. I sent her a message the day after (think it was) with: Hey Christin. And the day after that I tried to call her, but she didn't answer. Two days ago I called her again and this time we talked for about 10 minutes. We had some awkward pauses though, but she seemed interested in me on the phone. After 10 minutes I hung up on her. Tried to call her again today, with hey it's BroesBeforeHoes, I know about this really cool coffe place, do you wanna come to it with me? We should check it out on Sunday. She said she had to think about, does that mean no? Moreover, what did I do wrong? |
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| Author: | danieltx [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 2:32 pm ] |
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You shouldn't send a text message with just something like, "Hey Christin". It provides no incentive for her to return the message. Send someting that's going to make her want to takl with you. |
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| Author: | Kasdrup [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 3:45 pm ] |
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Quote: You shouldn't send a text message with just something like, "Hey Christin". It provides no incentive for her to return the message. Send someting that's going to make her want to takl with you.
Thanks  Although, the point of the first message is that now she knows who's calling her the next day. |
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| Author: | Kosher719 [ Thu Sep 18, 2008 6:35 pm ] |
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true but you did not identify yourself in that first message. you just said hey. be a lil more interactive in that first message, ill edit with a link to it, but there is a sticky in another thread with some great texts to use. i would not have said would you like to check it out. you are giving up lead here and putting her in the driver seat. ideally i would have started with, something like.... hey, did you hear aliens are abducting all the sexy ass people, i just wanted to let you know, you will be safe, and i will miss you. lol. (let her respond) then naw but i have decided what we should do for our next date. (oh you have have you or w/e she says) ya there is this awesome coffee place i found, i vote we check it out. im free sunday, would afternoon or evening work better for you? the reason i always offer dual times is becuz of this. its a technique i used back when i was doing appointment based sales. you get the customer remotely interested. establish you are coming to see them. and then you instill in their mind that they ahve already commited, would 2 or 6 be better for you on sunday. oh your not available sunday, thats great i have a opening at 1 or 7 tuesday, which would work better. so if she says well im actually busy sunday, say oh sweet, well you will ahve to tell me how exciting your day ended up when we go out (insert day). this way you maintain lead and in the driver seat. |
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