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Author:  heinrich3 [ Tue Sep 16, 2008 8:57 pm ]
Post subject:  What did I do wrong :( "?

So today I had an experience with a girl .

I was walking down the street and this cute HB7 (in my eyes 10, but I have quirky tastes) stopped me to sign up for some crap for the environment. I did , but I was late for class so I signed up and left. The whole time I was signing up she was looking me straight in the eye when talking and when I was filling up the forms she leaned in on me and we were very close. I thought this was an IOI, so an hour and a half later I come back looking for her and walk by her as she is recruiting someone else. I had extreme AA but atleast knew what to talk about and stood down the street as she talked to the other. I finally got the nerve to talk to her and just blurted something out:

Me: Hey, got lots of people signing up ?

Her: yeah actuallly blah blah blah blah blah (says a few sentences)

Me: cool blahblah blah ( I ask her about her life, she asks me about mine).

Her: "politics, blah blah blah"

Me: You know what, I'm not really on any side politically. IN my opinion politicians should be shot.

Her: *bursts out laughing* "that's a lil violent"

Me: meh what do I know I'm just ignorant when it comes to these things (did this bring me down?)

Things one could interpret as IOI's during this convo:

-She brushed her hair back once or twice even though it was in poney tail
-She was looking me in eyes with powerful eye contact the whole time, while I looked away once or twice (couldn' t help it)
-She was asking me about me and keeping the convo flowing
-She seemed very comfortable and was close to me the whole time.

Then all of a sudden she says "well jimmy thanks for signing up, I have to head back to headquarters so I'll see you around" ( I dont know if this was true or just an excuse to make me go away)

THen I asked her if I would see her in that spot again ,and she said probably not as they get rotated all the time.

I felt there still needed to be more escalation of attraction before going for #close, so I didnt. Plus her co worker was there and I would look like a turd if she rejected me/made her uncomfortable. I think she was like 4-5 years older than me too, and I look kind of young for my age (I'm 19) which hurts me a lot with girls. I'm also about 5'7, so while she was considerably smaller than me i know a lot of girls don't like this, which can also be frustrating.

Im kind of pissed because it took a lot of nerve on my part to talk to her and i didn't really get anywhere. I'm also pissed off because when I saw this girl I had an unexplainable feeling that i could be her "type", a feeling I dont get with many women because they are shallow and moronic, so one that isnt is hard to find ion my experience.

Masters: HELP ME, TO HAVE A BETTER ONE NEXT TIME.

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