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| Author: | Trevino [ Tue Sep 16, 2008 4:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Should I cut this one loose? |
Okay, so Ive been dating this girl awhile and things were going great until she freaked out about the 'relationship.' Now she wants a step back. I feel like she is doing push/pull with me. Should I just keep rolling with it or cut it loose? |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Sep 16, 2008 5:49 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should I cut this one loose? |
Quote: Okay, so Ive been dating this girl awhile and things were going great until she freaked out about the 'relationship.' Now she wants a step back. I feel like she is doing push/pull with me.
Well, if she wants to take a step back and you follow she's leading. You can continue to play it her way and it may work or most likely won't.Should I just keep rolling with it or cut it loose? You can cut it loose and hope it comes back to you later, which is a gamble, but could work. Lastly, you can cut her loose and move on. I guess the answer to this really depends on what you want. To me it sounds like you want a relationship with a girl. Since you've been together a while I'm going to "Assume" that you like being around her. Push/Pull is a part of any relationship. We do it, the girls do it, and it's a vicious cycle, LOL. By "step back" is she trying to put you in the friends zone, cutting out sex, or what? Sooner or later you are going to have to bend to her will a little bit. Pickup is about leading the interactions to get the girl. Well, you have the girl and want to keep her. I would try and take a step back because you can always leave her to see what happens. With a relationship you have to compromised and bend a bit within reason to make things work. |
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