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Author:  Xstatica [ Tue Sep 16, 2008 12:38 pm ]
Post subject:  "You try to be an asshole but I see you a really nice g
Took a HB7 as a wing out last night, we were talking on stage and she was laughing and very touchy, was awesome, noticed all the girls instantly staring at me!

That night, met this girl who I spoke about 4 words too before she asked me to her car (I found her keys and asked for proof that its her car :D ) She proceed to 'take me for a drive' Anyways she said a few times how "You try to be an asshole but I can see you a really nice guy" - I replied, "I actually am a asshole"

This is all after I kiss closed... she was permanently laughing and was trying incredibly hard to increase her points in my point system :P

Is this the affect I want or am I doing something wrong, what would have been a good response... I said things as follows in the car:

"Wow... I am actually a better kisser than you :P"
"Wait till the cops found out how you raped me! You not gonna stalk me now are you?"
called me a "jock" gave her -20 points for guessing horrible wrong who I was... "never spent so little time with a girl and have her be so much in the negative!"
"Your face is really cute with your big nose :P"
Author:  Stygian [ Tue Sep 16, 2008 5:41 pm ]
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Well first of all: If she is saying this to you so openly you're A) Doing something wrong B) Doing something very right.

Depending on how it would said I would either take it as a shit test or an IOI, if it's the latter I would have closed at that point. Were it the former I would have gone C+F.
Author:  Xstatica [ Wed Sep 17, 2008 12:47 pm ]
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I forgot to mention I had already kiss closed, I edited the above post.

Is it ever ok to outright compliment them... "You really are beautiful" Or is that AFC?

I always end up permantently throwing cocky/funny comments and not being str8 forward about anything... people call me crazy/random a lot... What do I say to that and again... is that what I want ?
Author:  Stygian [ Wed Sep 17, 2008 5:17 pm ]
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All of this should be predetermined by your own frame. Of course you can compliment them, methods telling you not to are doing so to get rid of whatever AFC habits you have. This does not go to say that you should compliment all the time but if you are going to compliment a girl then make sure it's sincere and not just to get extra points.

As for if these reactions are what you want, that is your own choice. Do you want people do see you as random and crazy? If so then the answer is YES!

We cannot determine what it is you want, all I can say is you should be a lot more straightforward about things if this isn't the reaction you're looking for. If you are studying indirect game don't make every single part of your game indirect or you'll have a hell of a hard time closing a girl.
Author:  Xstatica [ Wed Sep 17, 2008 5:39 pm ]
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"If you are studying indirect game don't make every single part of your game indirect or you'll have a hell of a hard time closing a girl." -- Think this is exactly what I am doing

Thanks Stygian... really great advise :D
Author:  Stygian [ Wed Sep 17, 2008 10:00 pm ]
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My pleasure, if you feel you're being far too indirect with your game (and believe me I know exactly what that feels like) just go out and do a bunch of direct day game, then you'll get rid of some of you limiting beliefs.
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