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| Author: | KBaN [ Sat Sep 06, 2008 6:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | am i just too intimidating? |
hey, when i randomly get into small talk with women on the subway or something, they eventually tend to just look away and stop talking... i dont know if they are too embarrassed or if they just dont wanna talk to me... im not a bad looking guy and i hope im not that boring/weird either.. maybe it was the leather jacket i wore?? |
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| Author: | don_romantiko [ Sat Sep 06, 2008 6:14 am ] |
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maybe.. maybe you have that bad-ass/bad boy look that makes them intimidated.. I used to be like that, a bit of a snob too.. didn't work for me.. although there might be that 'mysterious' factor (usually works in univ.) |
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| Author: | Sexcellent [ Mon Sep 08, 2008 5:28 pm ] |
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if you feel that they are attracted, and you are getting ioi's, then start to use kino and build comfort. the way you transition from building attraction, to building comfort is through qualification. when qualifying her, you want to make her try to win you over and impress you. this is the stage where you want to show that you are starting to have some interest in her. |
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| Author: | Bonita [ Mon Sep 08, 2008 6:10 pm ] |
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It might help if you do more work on knocking out her bitch shield. During the day it is lowered, but still there. And on a subway it is definitely heightened bc people know that you dont generally talk to one-another on the subway. Just this past saturday i was on the metro and this guy started talking to me. He wasn't a bad looking guy, but i was on the metro by myself at 2am so i was going to be very cautious. He made no attempt to make me feel at ease. He seemed like an okay guy, but in situations like that, a girl will have a guard up...so I suggest you freshen up your knowledge on the bitch shield. Hope that helps! |
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| Author: | dieselfuel [ Tue Sep 09, 2008 1:07 am ] |
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Its hard to say, work on kino and get good at it |
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| Author: | fsidontknow [ Tue Sep 09, 2008 7:56 am ] |
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can you describe a typical convo you have maiby that way people can give better suggestions |
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| Author: | Legendat24 [ Wed Sep 10, 2008 6:50 pm ] |
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if its just random small talk then it can get weird for two strangers you need to change topics and make it more personal as soon as possible |
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