Long Story, but complex situation.
My roommate has an HB8 as a friend. He's been trying to F-close for the past couple weeks. She has turned down his advances. We recently spent the day together at the beach, he was there but had to leave early for work. I didn't make a move on her because my friend is interested. After my roommate left us alone at the beach we developed great Kino (which she initiated). She is 33 and I am 28 if that makes any difference. She invited me to dinner and to see her place. I accepted. Had great conversation at dinner then we go to her place. She invites me to check out her bed that she's been raving about because we have cheap hard mattresses at my place. So I check it out, I'm laying on her bed and so is she. I didn't make a move because my buddy was in a similar situation when he was shot down. I like her and wanted to be respectful. So we fell asleep together in the same bed. Next morning she goes to work and leaves me in her apartment. I leave a note before I leave. She had a pending job interview as well, so in the note I tell her to give me a call to see how her interview goes, thanking her for last dinner and conversation the night before, and my number (everything happened so fast we didn't even have each other's number). She has not called me, it's been 4 days. Did I F up and should move on? Should I call her? If I do call her, how do I explain me getting her number (stole number off of friend's cell phone and friend does not know we went out together)? I'd like to date her, but if that doesn't work out being friends is fine as well. What should I do or is this a lost cause and I should just move on?
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