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Author:  lacuna88 [ Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:39 am ]
Post subject:  New to the game, Co-Worker Flirting, Need Help

Basically a girl i work with flirts with me, and i flirt back for fun, we work at a restaurant and will lightly touch each other as we pass by, sometimes we just grab each others ass' for fun.

The reason I havn't made a move before is because A) she had a boyfriend, and B) she is a co-worker and I am worried of the situation if it doesnt work accordingly, I know that co-worker relationships are a no-go zone

However, I don't want a relationship, and from what she tells me, neither does she, she just informed me that she is single, and that she wants to play the field,

I upped the flirting tonight by talking about sexual fantasies, positions, and past experiences with her, and she wasnt uncomfortable, she was quite eager, and talked about her fav position and fetishes

However this girl is extremely hot, she is use to having guys fall for her and chase her, so I need to approach this right

I'm just wondering if anyone has any ideas how I can maybe progress in this relationship, i know i need to make the first move, but i want to do it in a casual, in-direct way, i guess to minimize the damage if it doesnt work out

Author:  Bloc Rider [ Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:41 am ]
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Have you been negging her (you should be)
also if you dont step this up you will end up in the friendship zone.

Author:  lacuna88 [ Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:45 am ]
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yea I'll throw out the occasional neg every now and then, I will tease, mess up her hair, treat her like a bratty younger sister,

Author:  Alphie [ Fri Sep 05, 2008 12:08 pm ]
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Ever thought of just asking her out on a date.... She clearly likes you because she is telling you she is single. :)

But you could tease her a little bit by saying that 'her nose wobbles when she speaks or something! :wink: im sure that not every guy says that to her :)

Author:  lacuna88 [ Fri Sep 05, 2008 1:32 pm ]
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Yea I guess its just treading on ice sorta seeing I work with her, I often debate over whether she is just flirting for fun or if there is something, if I pretty much say come back to my place im playing my entire hand so to speak,

lol i just wish there was a less direct way

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