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Author:  omega_unit [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 8:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Train-wreck
heya guys, ran into my first fail last week hope you can give me a little insight. Thanks in advance, I'll try not to go on.

I was running tech on a HB8 and everything was going fine, I knew she wanted me.

She emails me asking to have a chat with me. So we hooked up and I could see in her eye's this was make or break time. Anyway she wastes no time in getting started with the shit-tests as she has a load of hang-ups about going out with me she needed to resolve. But they don't stop and I crumble eventually, the AFC responses start to appear, it gets worse and worse, and I don't even have enough confidence left to disengage, I just suck it down. After an hour of it, it's a train-wreck I can't even look her in the eye. Pawned.

Unfortunately since I started running tech on her she came to work with me and became best friends with my best friend at work who happens to be social queen-bee, a merciless gossip, and not best friends enough not to gossip about me :)

Now it feels uncomfortable around them as my value has bombed.

I'm not concerned about closing now what I really want to know is how to go about restoring my value. I'm after some ideas on damage limitation if you guys can think of anything :)
Author:  Nate Heartagram(UBRNINJ@) [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 2:33 am ]
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hmm, well perfect practice makes perfect
Author:  bigjamiemac [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 3:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Train-wreck
Quote:
heya guys, ran into my first fail last week hope you can give me a little insight. Thanks in advance, I'll try not to go on.

I was running tech on a HB8 and everything was going fine, I knew she wanted me.

She emails me asking to have a chat with me. So we hooked up and I could see in her eye's this was make or break time. Anyway she wastes no time in getting started with the shit-tests as she has a load of hang-ups about going out with me she needed to resolve. But they don't stop and I crumble eventually, the AFC responses start to appear, it gets worse and worse, and I don't even have enough confidence left to disengage, I just suck it down. After an hour of it, it's a train-wreck I can't even look her in the eye. Pawned.

Unfortunately since I started running tech on her she came to work with me and became best friends with my best friend at work who happens to be social queen-bee, a merciless gossip, and not best friends enough not to gossip about me :)

Now it feels uncomfortable around them as my value has bombed.

I'm not concerned about closing now what I really want to know is how to go about restoring my value. I'm after some ideas on damage limitation if you guys can think of anything :)

I dunno if you see it man,but that is not a bead thing at all..If she made friends with your best friend your best friend will show you the love with her.That is what true friends do for one another...
Author:  omega_unit [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 7:17 pm ]
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Thanks for the replies guys, bumped into her today, deployed some fearless eye contact, she buckled first, chatted a bit, felt better.

Not ideal by any means, but better than being in a mood about it.

Your right, life goes on :D
Author:  rain63 [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 11:14 pm ]
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Yeah, even if you're not banging her, you will probably end up with a good-looking female friend to use as pivot etc...
Author:  Impact [ Tue Sep 02, 2008 4:44 am ]
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Your frame is the only frame that matters.

That’s where your going wrong. Falling into her world and her shit tests.. If she throws allot at you just say “ do you have your survey written down or something.. do you do this to all men.. my goodness! No wonder your single! “, jokingly offcourse and very playful.. you made a very newbie mistake, but you will learn! Keep at it! Don’t let women set the guide lines!
Author:  omega_unit [ Wed Sep 03, 2008 6:57 pm ]
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Thanks Impact, you're spot-on of course.

Beforehand I knew of this and afterwards I knew immediately what had happened but in the moment I slid into her frame really fast.

You know I needed this experience to calibrate the brain-filters and give me something to anchor lines such as those to.

Next time I'll be ready, heh :)
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