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Author:  Rikkeh [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 2:06 pm ]
Post subject:  I froze when...

Yesterday I was in the bar nearby, theres a girl "target" shes a friend of some of my friends. I didnt open a set yet because I just walked in, and was drinking some beer with my friends, then all of a sudden my target came stand next to me and started talking to one of my friends for like a minute, and after she opened on me and it went something like this

her: Hey didn't you add me on Facebook?
me: I can't remember really
her: Yeah your name is Rik
me: Oh, wow you remembered.

so then I didnt know anything to say, and I realized that I suck in that part:

if someone opens me, how do I turn around the convo so I can dhv.


in the end I found out that she's one of my friends on facebook, and shes really a 9.. so now I got 3 questions


what do you say when someone is like:
"Hey didn't you add me on ..."

if a girl opens you, how can you start DVHing, beacuse imo the girl shouldnt ever open, but since it happens I'll have to know how to deal with it

Then another thing, after our convo she just went back to some friends, then later on I wanted to search her.. but since I arrived at 0.40 she was already gone an hour later.. so would it be smart to send her some message on facebook?

and what kind of message (and why/purpose)

Author:  LaserJet [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 2:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I froze when...

Quote:
her: Hey didn't you add me on Facebook?
me: I can't remember really
her: Yeah your name is Rik
me: Oh, wow you remembered.
Hmmm, looks like you just shut down the conversation, twice...
She tries to initiate a conversation with you, and both times you just answered with something that's pretty much a full-stop to the conversation.
Why didn't you try to pop in some questions to keep the conversation flowing?

Author:  topaz [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 3:07 pm ]
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he is right...

and please do send her a message,there are a lot of options...because she seems nice(to you).
write whatever you want in the message but a nice subject (the first thing she sees) would be
"I hate you !!!"

then make the message you send her funny and youmight want to give her a negy or just a cool reason why u hate her haha :P

Author:  Rikkeh [ Sun Aug 31, 2008 10:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I froze when...

Quote:
Quote:
her: Hey didn't you add me on Facebook?
me: I can't remember really
her: Yeah your name is Rik
me: Oh, wow you remembered.
Hmmm, looks like you just shut down the conversation, twice...
She tries to initiate a conversation with you, and both times you just answered with something that's pretty much a full-stop to the conversation.
Why didn't you try to pop in some questions to keep the conversation flowing?

thats why the title is: I froze,, I just got opened by a girl.. wich never happens.. so I just said something random and closed the convo.. but I know your right^^

Author:  Musterion [ Mon Sep 01, 2008 1:36 am ]
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After she said what your name was you could have negged with something like "Wow you remember the names of random guys off facebook, you have no life (smile playfully). So what do you have going for you other than facebook?" Most probably not word for word with this but I think you get the idea, just tease her a little and get the conversation rolling with a little qualification question.

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